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Category Archives: dependence
Anne Lamott on The New Year Diet
Characteristic humour and depth from Anne, on a seasonally relevant theme…. This touches on personal experience for me. I have experienced similar battles to Anne’s. In my past life, I regularly embarked on diets. I have also found more of value in deeper connection … Continue reading
Posted in abuse, Anne Lamott, awakening, bodywork, compassion, compulsive behaviour, conditions of worth, cultural questions, Dance, dependence, Disconnection, Eating, embodiment, emotions, healing, humour, identity, internal locus of evaluation, kindness & compassion, love, meditation, mindfulness, movement meditation, objectification, organismic experiencing, perception, person centred, physical being, presence, sadness & pain, self, self concept, self esteem, shame, therapeutic growth, therapeutic relationship, transformation, trauma, vulnerability
Tagged 'eating disorder', addictive behaviour, addictive eating, affordable counselling exeter, Anne Lamott, awakening, awareness, body dysmorphia, body image, building self esteem, compulsive behaviour, compulsive eating, conscious dance, conscious eating, counselling exeter, counsellor Exeter, counsellors Exeter, dieting, displaced behaviour, displaced expression, displacement, embodied being, embodiment, emotional eating, food as love, food as substitute for love, injuries to sense of self, lack of love, low cost counselling exeter, movement meditation, negative body image, new year diet, nourishment, nurture, organismic, Palace Gate Counselling Service, Palace Gate Counselling Service Exeter, person centred counselling exeter, physical being, self abuse, self concept, self esteem, self hatred, self love, self nourishing, self nurture, self punishment, self-loathing, self-structure, sense of self, sugar addiction, sugar craving, therapeutic relationship, therapy, transformation, trauma, trauma response, veganism, www.palacegatecounselling.org.uk
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Gabor Maté on what becomes of the desolate child
‘Paul Gillespie still can’t get used to the sounds of crying and pain in the graphic videos of children being raped and molested that he has seen all too often on the Web. “It’s beyond horrible to listen to the … Continue reading
Posted in 'evil', abuse, blaming, child development, childhood abuse, compassion, compulsive behaviour, conditions of worth, conflict, criminal justice model, cultural questions, dependence, Disconnection, ethics, fear, Gabor Mate, meaning, perception, pornography, power and powerlessness, sadness & pain, scapegoating, self concept, self esteem, shadow, shame, shaming, trauma, trust, violence, vulnerability
Tagged addiction, addictive behaviour, affordable counselling exeter, alienation, alienation from self, alienation in relationship, alienation in society, altered consciousness, authority, awareness, belonging, bio psychosocial model, bio psychosocial perspective, biomedical model, child development, choice, connection, counselling exeter, counsellor Exeter, counsellors Exeter, criminal justice system, cultural toxicity, denial, disconnection, dislocation, distress, empathy, expectation, fear, Gabor Mate, healing the past, hostility, impulse regulation, In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts, interconnectedness, interconnection, interdependence, loss of control, loss of meaning, low cost counselling exeter, manipulation, meaning of addiction, meaninglessness, medical model, meeting emotional need, mental health, pain, Palace Gate Counselling Service, Palace Gate Counselling Service Exeter, Paul Gillespie, perception, person centred counselling exeter, person-centered, person-centred, powerlessness, relationship, self concept, self medication, self regulation, self soothing, separation, social context of addiction, social isolation, social isolation and health, societal responsibility, socio-economic disadvantage, substitutes for meaning, toxic culture, toxic stress, trauma, traumatised populations, www.palacegatecounselling.org.uk
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Chelsea Fields on the decision to circumsize her baby son
The writer found it difficult to reach the end of this deeply moving personal account, because of the extent to which she was crying. There’s a quotation from James Hillman we tweeted the other day:- ‘..the question of evil….refers primarily … Continue reading
Posted in awakening, compassion, congruence, consciousness, core conditions, cultural questions, dependence, Disconnection, embodiment, emotions, empathy, ethics, external locus, family systems, generational trauma, grief, growing up, interconnection & belonging, internal locus of evaluation, James Hillman, Jung, loss, love, non-conforming, organismic experiencing, parenting, perception, physical being, power and powerlessness, pregnancy, relationship, sadness & pain, trauma, trust, violence, vulnerability
Tagged affordable counselling exeter, anesthetized heart, authenticity, awakening, belonging, causing pain, Chelsea Fields, circumcision, compassion, congruence, core conditions, counselling exeter, counsellor Exeter, counsellors Exeter, cultural attitudes to children, cultural attitudes to circumsion, dependence, disconnection, embodiment, emotions, empathy, ethics, external locus, family systems, grief, interconnection, interdependence, internal locus, James Hillman, Jung, loss, love, low cost counselling exeter, making choices for your baby, making choices for your child, non-conforming, pain, Palace Gate Counselling Service, Palace Gate Counselling Service Exeter, parenting, person centred counselling exeter, person-centered, person-centred, pregnancy, relationship, sadness, trauma, trust, unconscious, vulnerability, whether or not to circumcise, whether or not to circumsize, witnessing pain, witnessing suffering, www.palacegatecounselling.org.uk
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