Tag Archives: internal locus

Toko-pa Turner – False belonging & conditionality

Posted on October 3, 2019 by Palace Gate Counselling Service

“Our longing for community and purpose is so powerful that it can drive us to join groups, relationships, or systems of belief that, to our diminished or divided self, give the false impression of belonging. But places of false belonging … Continue reading →

Posted in acceptance, actualizing tendency, autonomy, awakening, community, consciousness, cultural questions, growth, interconnection & belonging, internal locus of evaluation, self, Toko-pa, transformation | Tagged accepting risk, actualising, actualizing, affordable counselling exeter, belonging, Belonging Remembering Ourselves Home, conditional acceptance, conditional with self, constricting growth, constriction of the soul, counselling exeter, counsellor Exeter, counsellors Exeter, devotion to the group mind, false belonging, g;ass ceiling, growing into our truth, human growth, individuating, individuating and belonging, internal locus, letting go, limiting growth, living with uncertainty, longing for community, longing for purpose, longing for tribe, longing to belong, low cost counselling exeter, need for growth, need to grow, Palace Gate Counselling Service, Palace Gate Counselling Service Exeter, person centred counselling exeter, rebellion and growth, rebellious impulse, self conditionality, stepping into uncertainty, Toko-pa, Toko-pa Turner, transformation, www.palacegatecounselling.org.uk | Leave a comment

Rupi Kaur on confusing anger and kindness

Posted on April 30, 2018 by Palace Gate Counselling Service

“Every time you tell your daughter you yell at her out of love you teach her to confuse anger with kindness which seems like a good idea till she grows up to trust men who hurt her cause they look … Continue reading →

Posted in anger, boundaries, child development, communication, cultural questions, family systems, feminine, growing up, kindness & compassion, love, parenting, perception, relationship, trust, vulnerability | Tagged affordable counselling exeter, boundaries, compliance, conditions of worth, conforming, confusing anger and kindness, congruence, conscious parenting, counselling exeter, counsellor Exeter, counsellors Exeter, creating boundaries, empowerment, expressing yourself, feminism, internal locus, low cost counselling exeter, misplaced trust, Palace Gate Counselling Service, Palace Gate Counselling Service Exeter, parenting and anger, parenting and boundaries, people pleasing, person centred counselling exeter, raising children, realness, rupi kaur, seeking approval, self concept, self esteem, self-determination, self-structure, shouting at children, trust, www.palacegatecounselling.org.uk | Leave a comment

Rachel Naomi Remen on Reclaiming ourselves

Posted on March 6, 2018 by Palace Gate Counselling Service

“Reclaiming ourselves usually means coming to recognize and accept that we have in us both sides of everything. We are capable of fear and courage, generosity and selfishness, vulnerability and strength. These things do not cancel each other out but … Continue reading →

Posted in acceptance, compassion, empowerment, identity, internal locus of evaluation, perception, Rachel Naomi Remen, self, self concept, self esteem, shadow, vulnerability | Tagged acceptance and healing, accepting complexity, accepting yourself, affordable counselling exeter, authenticity, counselling exeter, counsellor Exeter, counsellors Exeter, developing identity, empowerment, escaping binaries, escaping the binary, including yourself, individuation, internal locus, Kitchen Table Wisdom, low cost counselling exeter, maturation process, Palace Gate Counselling Service, Palace Gate Counselling Service Exeter, person centred counselling exeter, Rachel Naomi Remen, Rachel Remen, reclaiming ourselves, reclaiming shadow, self acceptance, self awareness, self compassion, self concept, self judgement, self kindness, self love, self value, self-structure, shortcomings, vulnerability, www.palacegatecounselling.org.uk | Leave a comment

Your True Home – John O’Donohue

Posted on January 30, 2018 by Palace Gate Counselling Service

Click on the above link to visit John O’Donohue’s page on Facebook for this beautiful meditation. We are struck that his conclusion is the same as Carl Rogers – when we are able to come home to ourselves and be … Continue reading →

Posted in acceptance, actualizing tendency, autonomy, awakening, community, congruence, consciousness, core conditions, creativity, cultural questions, Disconnection, embodiment, emotions, identity, immanence, interconnection & belonging, internal locus of evaluation, John O'Donohue, loneliness, meaning, meditation, person centred, person centred theory, photographs & pictures, presence, reality, relationship, self, self concept, spirituality, surrender, transformation, vulnerability | Tagged acceptance, actualising, actualizing, affordable counselling exeter, alienation, alone in the world, aloneness, awakening, beauty, belonging, bleakness, breaking the spell, coming home to yourself, connectedness, connecting, core conditions, counselling exeter, counsellor Exeter, counsellors Exeter, creative connection, disconnection, emptiness, Eternal Echoes, existential aloneness, existential loneliness, external locus, facing aloneness, false belonging, finding inner rest, finding your inner rhythm, finding your true home, finding yourself, fragmentation, house of your heart, immanence, individuating, inhabiting aloneness, inner knowing, interconnection, interdependence, internal locus, John O'Donohue, learning to listen, listening imagination, loneliness, longing, losing yourself, loving life, low cost counselling exeter, Palace Gate Counselling Service, Palace Gate Counselling Service Exeter, person centred counselling exeter, prayer, presence, sacredness, seeking affirmation, seeking distraction, self acceptance, self concept, self love, self-structure, sense of the sacred, soul voice, source, spirituality, surrender, Thomas a Kempis, transformative change, transition times, true belonging, trusting your inner wisdom, trusting yourself, valuing life, veils of illusion, voice crying in the wilderness, voice of the soul, www.palacegatecounselling.org.uk | Leave a comment

I’m a Therapist, But I’m Not Your Therapist – Kathleen Smith

Posted on December 30, 2017 by Palace Gate Counselling Service

https://www.thecut.com/2017/12/therapist-friends-ask-for-advice.html?utm_campaign=sou&utm_source=fb&utm_medium=s1 Click on the link above for Kathleen’s thoughtful and perceptive piece…. Palace Gate Counselling Service, Exeter Counselling in Exeter since 1994

Posted in boundaries, communication, community, conditions of worth, congruence, core conditions, cultural questions, empathy, empowerment, encounter, ethics, friendship, growth, healing, interconnection & belonging, internal locus of evaluation, non-directive counselling, power and powerlessness, presence, relationship, resilience, sadness & pain, therapeutic growth, therapeutic relationship, vulnerability | Tagged advice and therapy, affordable counselling exeter, asking advice, assumptions, autonomy, boundaries, counselling exeter, counsellor Exeter, counsellors Exeter, expectations in relationship, expectations of self, internal locus, Kathleen Smith, low cost counselling exeter, Palace Gate Counselling Service, Palace Gate Counselling Service Exeter, person centred counselling exeter, prophet in own land, www.palacegatecounselling.org.uk | Leave a comment

I am not your fault – Charlotte Eriksson

Posted on December 21, 2017 by Palace Gate Counselling Service

“So I am not a broken heart. I am not the weight I lost or miles or ran and I am not the way I slept on my doorstep under the bare sky in smell of tears and whiskey because … Continue reading →

Posted in acceptance, awakening, blaming, compulsive behaviour, consciousness, cultural questions, embodiment, empowerment, grief, growth, healing, internal locus of evaluation, loss, love, meaning, mindfulness, organismic experiencing, perception, physical being, power and powerlessness, presence, self, self concept, surrender, trust, vulnerability | Tagged acceptance, actualising, actualizing, affordable counselling exeter, awakening, broken heart, Charlotte Eriksson, counselling exeter, counsellor Exeter, counsellors Exeter, empowering, empowerment, fault and blame, grief, healing, internal locus, loss and grief, low cost counselling exeter, nature of forgiveness, not your fault, organismic, Palace Gate Counselling Service, Palace Gate Counselling Service Exeter, person centred counselling exeter, powerlessness, presence, recovery, running away, sacredness, Self, self concept, unfolding, unmet need, www.palacegatecounselling.org.uk | Leave a comment

The Touch of Madness – David Dobbs

Posted on October 6, 2017 by Palace Gate Counselling Service

https://psmag.com/magazine/the-touch-of-madness-mental-health-schizophrenia Click on the link above for this wonderful (lengthy – and well worth the time investment) piece. Nev’s perspective aligns with how we see ‘madness’ at this service. Thank you, David – and Nev. Also thanks to Jason Hine, … Continue reading →

Posted in anti-psychotics, civil rights, community, consciousness, cultural questions, cultural taboos, diagnoses of bipolar, Disconnection, diversity, empathy, empowerment, equality, ethics, external locus, friendship, healing, hearing voices, identity, interconnection & belonging, internal locus of evaluation, loneliness, loss, medical model, meditation, neuroscience, Nev Jones, non-conforming, organismic experiencing, perception, political, power and powerlessness, presence, psychiatric abuse, psychiatric drugs, psychiatry, psychosis, reality, sacred illness, schizophrenia, self, self concept, transformation, trauma, trust, violence, vulnerability | Tagged . hopelessness and despair, abjection, affirmation and support, affordable counselling exeter, agitation, alienating, alienation, altered perception, altered reality, American Madness: The Rise and Fall of Dementia Praecox, antipsychotics, anxiety and depression, Art Munin, articulating experience, assimilating, auditory hallucination, auditory thoughts, Avery Goldman, Azadeh Erfani, base currency of cultural exchange, Batman shooter, batshit crazy, being an outcast, being forsaken, belittling, biocentric psychiatry, biocultural anthropology, biological approach to psychosis, biological approach to schizophrenia, biological psychiatry, biomedical model, biomedical model of madness, biomedical model of mental illness, biomedical psychiatry, bipolar disorder, bonds of friendship, borderless, broken brain, Camus, casting people away, changing our response to the mad, changing the culture, changing the world, changing thinking, changing thinking about mental health, chemical imbalance, chemical restraints, Cherise Rosen, circle of friends, circular model of culture, circular schema of cultural influence, clearing the mind, cognitive blips, cognitive dissonance, comparative psychiatry, Compendium der Psychiatrie, confusion, connection, consciousness, consensual reality, contradictory states, counselling exeter, counsellor Exeter, counsellors Exeter, Cracked, Crazy Like Us: The Globalization of the American Psyche, creating culture, critical psychiatry studies, cuckoo, cultural beliefs, cultural constructs, cultural constructs of madness, cultural constructs of responsibility, cultural constructs of sanity, cultural differences in schizophrenia, cultural framings, cultural interpretations, cultural invisibility, cultural microcosm, cultural patriarchy, cultural psychiatry, cultural stories, cultural symbols, cultural values, cultural war, culture and diversity, culture shapes madness, culture shapes the experience, culture's effect on schizophrenia, Daniel Lende, Daniel Paul Schreber, David Dobbs, demented, dementia praecox, depictions of madness, depictions of the mad, depression, depth perception, descent into madness, detachment from reality, deviation from norms, diagnosis of schizophrenia, diagnostic categories, diagnostic uncertainty, disappearance of self, disordered thinking, distortions in reality's fabric, divided between reality and delusion, dominant concepts, dominant ideas, dominant social structures, dominant values, Donald Winnicott, double bookkeeping, double registration, downward spiral, early intervention programs in schizophrenia, educational support for schizophrenia, Edward Sapir, EIP, Ekun zenni, Emil Kraepelin, emptiness, endangering self, engaging with the world, equating psychosis with violence, Erving Goffman, Ethan Watters, Eugen Bleuler, excluding language, exclusion, exclusion by definition, experiences of exile, experiences of madness, experiences of rejection, expression and culture, external locus, extreme experience, fabric of reality, familial subculture, family madness, Felicity Callard, felt sense, first care in schizophrenia, first episode psychosis response, forced hospitalisation, forced hospitalization, formlessness, going mad, hallucinations, harm reduction in schizophrenia, hearing voices, Hegel, Hesse, how madness develops, how we think of madness, how we treat the mad, impact of social exchange, inarticulable, inclusion, indigenous views of madness, indigenous views of mental illness, individual interactions and culture, influencing the culture around us, inhabitation of spirits, inner torments, institutionalised racism, institutionalized racism, intensity, internal locus, internalized culture, Irene Hurford, is schizophrenia curable, is schizophrenia permanent, is schizophrenia progressive, isolation, Jared Loughner, Kant, Kimwana, kinesthetics, koan, labeling people, labelling people, Lehrbuch der Psychiatrie, Lende's circular schema, Lived Experience, Lizzie Borden, Lola Dupré, loopy, loss of self, lost self, lostness, low cost counselling exeter, mad as a hatter, madness and slang, madness as transient, madness studies, magnificently intense, mansplaining, marginalisation, marginalising, marginalization, marginalizing, McCarthyism, medical model, medicalising madness, medicalizing madness, medicine branding, meditation, Memoirs of My Nervous Illness, memory blips, mental distress, mental fortifications, mental health activism, mental health advocacy, mental health care, Michel Foucault, mindfulness, models of behaviour, modernised culture, modernized culture, Mona Shattell, monoculture, Namita Goswami, nature of madness, nature of mental illness, neuroscience, Nev Jones, Nietzsche, normalising madness, normalising schizophrenia, normalizing madness, normalizing schizophrenia, Norman Bates, not knowing, not knowing what’s real, nutso, off one's box, Ophelia, order and chaos, ordering the disorderly, organisational racism, organizational racism, othering, othering language, our social world, outcasting the mad, outcome of madness, outsider, Pacific Standard, Palace Gate Counselling Service, Palace Gate Counselling Service Exeter, paranoia, patriarchal culture, Paul Eugen Bleuler, people with psychosis, perceptual anomalies, person centred counselling exeter, personal sphere of influence, personal subculture, phenomenology, philosophy and madness, physical restraints, pits of despair, Plato, precocious madness, predominant cultural ideas, psychiatric anthropology, psychiatric diagnosis, psychiatric hospitalisation, psychiatric hospitalization, psychiatric trauma, psycho, Psychosis, psychosis as passing phenomena, psychosis emerging, psychosis response, psychosis to wellness, psychotic episode, psychotic states, quieting the mind, Rasputin, reality perception, reforming mental health, reforming psychiatry, remoteness, resistance, resistance to solution, return of self, return to self, Richard Noll, Rick Lee, Roberta Payne, Ruminations on Madness, sacred illness, sanity and responsibility, Sartre, schizo, schizoaffective disorder, schizophrenia, schizophrenia and functionality, schizophrenia and neural decline, schizophrenia and psychosis, schizophrenia and trauma, schizophrenia intensity, schizophrenia is a brain illness, schizophrenia outcomes, schizophrenia prognosis, schizophrenia symptoms, schizotypal personality disorder, seeing psychosis and schizophrenia in a new way, self harm, self identifying as mentally ill, self observation, self perception, self stigma, self-consciousness, sense of exposure, sense of falling, sense of identity, separation, shamanic interpretation of schizophrenia, ShekharSaxena, shunning, sick culture, sitting in meditation, social exclusion, social inclusion, social isolation and schizophrenia, social norms and non conforming, social support for schizophrenia, socio economic context for depression, socio economic context for mental illness, socio economic factors in depression, socio economic factors in mental illness, spatiality, Speaking to My Madness, split mind, squashing diversity, standard response to first episodes of psychosis, Steven Kazmierczak, Stigma: Notes on the Management of Spoiled Identity, stranger to human nature, subjectivity, support networks and schizophrenia, synthesis, synthesizing intelligence, Tanya Luhrmann, temporality, terminal cancer of mental health, Tina Chanter, Touch of Madness, transcultural psychiatry, transformation, transforming first response to psychosis, trauma of hospitalisation, trauma of hospitalization, true locus of culture, U.S. mental health care, unhelpful help, unhinged, unmoored, unreachable, untouchables, Vaughan Bell, violent culture, violent fantasies, Virginia Woolf, visceral experience, voiceless, voicelessness, web of life, western culture, Western misperceptions about schizophrenia, Western views of schizophrenia, what is culture, what it means to be insane, what madness looks like, where culture disintegrates, witch hunt, Wolfgang Jilek, Wolfgang Pfeiffer, www.palacegatecounselling.org.uk, zenni | Leave a comment

Ralph Waldo Emerson on our uniqueness

Posted on September 18, 2017 by Palace Gate Counselling Service

“There is a time in every man’s education when he arrives at the conviction that envy is ignorance; that imitation is suicide; that he must take himself for better, for worse, as his portion; that though the wide universe is … Continue reading →

Posted in actualizing tendency, consciousness, empowerment, growth, internal locus of evaluation, meaning, perception, person centred | Tagged actualising, actualizing, affordable counselling exeter, authenticity, counselling exeter, counsellor Exeter, counsellors Exeter, existential meaning, giving your gifts, internal locus, living your truth, low cost counselling exeter, Palace Gate Counselling Service, Palace Gate Counselling Service Exeter, person centred counselling exeter, person-centered, person-centred, Ralph Waldo Emerson, unique being, uniqueness, www.palacegatecounselling.org.uk | Leave a comment

Howard Thurman on the sound of the genuine within

Posted on September 6, 2017 by Palace Gate Counselling Service

“There is something in every one of you that waits and listens for the sound of the genuine in yourself. It is the only true guide you will ever have. And if you cannot hear it, you will all of … Continue reading →

Posted in autonomy, conditions of worth, congruence, consciousness, Disconnection, empowerment, external locus, identity, internal locus of evaluation, non-conforming, organismic experiencing, power and powerlessness, presence, self, self concept, trust | Tagged affordable counselling exeter, authenticity, autonomy, being your own person, congruence, counselling exeter, counsellor Exeter, counsellors Exeter, empowerment, existential meaning, experiential truth, external authority, external locus, hearing yourself, Howard Thurman, identity, inner locus, internal locus, introjections, inward locus, listening to yourself, living your truth, low cost counselling exeter, non conforming, organismic, Palace Gate Counselling Service, Palace Gate Counselling Service Exeter, person centred counselling exeter, powerlessness, presence, self construct, self empathy, self empowering, self listening, self trust, self-structure, sound of the genuine, true to self, true to yourself, walking your own path, www.palacegatecounselling.org.uk | Leave a comment

Be An Island – Tracy Cochran

Posted on August 31, 2017 by Palace Gate Counselling Service

Be an Island Click on the above link to visit Tracy’s own site for this helpful piece, which we found through Parabola Magazine on Facebook. Some of the fundamentals around mindfulness practice, presence and gratitude. Palace Gate Counselling Service, Exeter … Continue reading →

Posted in acceptance, autonomy, awakening, community, compassion, consciousness, cultural questions, Disconnection, embodiment, emotions, encounter, external locus, fear, flow, gratitude, immanence, interconnection & belonging, internal locus of evaluation, kindness & compassion, loneliness, meaning, meditation, mindfulness, natural world, organismic experiencing, perception, physical being, power and powerlessness, presence, sadness & pain, self, self concept, spirituality, surrender, transformation, trust, wonder | Tagged 4 directions, 7 directions, acceptance of change, affordable counselling exeter, alienation, aliveness, Alphonse Osbert, ancestors, and this too shall pass, autonomy, basic goodness, be an island, be islands, be refuges, being grounded, born anew, bringing attention to our experience, building stories, change and acceptance, counselling exeter, counsellor Exeter, counsellors Exeter, craving, craving and dopamine, cultivating the witness, death and meaning, desire and dopamine, desiring, dropping down, dropping judgment, ego mind, emotional reactions, everything passes, existential meaning, experiencing without reacting, external locus, feeling cut off, feeling isolated, finding ground, finding meaning, finding stillness, focusing attention, four directions, freedom, fully alive, giving gratitude, giving thanks, gratitude, gratitude practice, Great Mystery, grounded, here and now, holistic, human craving, human desire, human loneliness, human responsiveness, human wanting, hypervigilance, immanence, in the present moment, inhabiting experience, internal locus, introjection, Kodo Sawaki Roshi, learn to relax, learning to relax, letting go, letting go of judgment, living experience, living fully, low cost counselling exeter, making sense of life, making sense of living, meaning of life, meditation, microcosm and macrocosm, mindfulness, mortality and meaning, observing without reacting, obsession, organism always up to something, Palace Gate Counselling Service, Palace Gate Counselling Service Exeter, part of the flow, part of the whole, paying attention, person centred counselling exeter, posterior cingulate cortex, practice of meditation, presence, prizing independence, quieting the mind, reacting and responding, reactive emotion, recovering spontaneity, remember who you are, resistance, resistance and suffering, resting in the beat, root of suffering, Roshi, rumination, self sufficient, settling, seven directions, Silence of the Water, spirituality, spontaneity, standing down, staying with now, still point, stillness, telling stories, the way of the Buddha, Tracy Cochran, transformation, transience, transience and meaning, trusting experience, trusting intuition, value of life, ways of grounding, wholeness, witnessing, wonder, www.palacegatecounselling.org.uk | Leave a comment

Tag Archives: internal locus

Archives

Meta