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Francis Weller on our shrunk & impoverished experience of being alive

Posted on November 16, 2018 by Palace Gate Counselling Service

Two favourites, Jewels Wingfield herself, and Francis Weller…. Here are the words, for those who have difficulty following Facebook links:- “Modern technological society has forgotten what it feels like to be embedded in a living culture, one rich with stories … Continue reading →

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How You Are Already Seeding Transformation – Joe Brewer

Posted on January 25, 2018 by Palace Gate Counselling Service

https://medium.com/@joe_brewer/how-you-are-already-seeding-transformation-d14a516d2850 Click on the above link for this inspiring piece from Joe. Thanks to Justine Corrie on Facebook for showing us this. Here’s an excerpt:- “Imagine the surface of a mountain lake in winter. The air has fallen below freezing … Continue reading →

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Alan Watts on our collective fugue state

Posted on June 6, 2017 by Palace Gate Counselling Service

‘One can only draw the conclusion that the assumption underlying this is that expressions of physical love are far more dangerous than expressions of physical hatred. And it seems to me that a culture that has that sort of … Continue reading →

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The Mirror – Soul Searching Solace

Posted on November 24, 2015 by Palace Gate Counselling Service

http://soulsearchingsolace.com/2015/10/12/the-mirror/ Some time ago, the writer encountered this blog. The author shares with raw authenticity her intense pain – that of a mother whose child has died. There is a lot here to resonate with those of us who are … Continue reading →

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Gabor Maté on what becomes of the desolate child

Posted on November 4, 2015 by Palace Gate Counselling Service

‘Paul Gillespie still can’t get used to the sounds of crying and pain in the graphic videos of children being raped and molested that he has seen all too often on the Web. “It’s beyond horrible to listen to the … Continue reading →

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Ancient Grief – Soul Searching Solace

Posted on September 7, 2015 by Palace Gate Counselling Service

http://soulsearchingsolace.com/2015/06/19/ancient-grief/ The writer stumbled across this today. It struck some chords, and made her cry. Beautifully expressed, powerful, raw, moving testimony of maternal grief… Palace Gate Counselling Service, Exeter Counselling Exeter since 1994

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Neurons to Nirvana: Gabor Maté Interview

Posted on August 21, 2015 by Palace Gate Counselling Service

A wide-ranging collection of excerpts from an interview with Gabor Maté, covering addiction, ayahuasca, past experience, transitional states, Western medicine and the mind/body division, and much more besides. As always, he is very watchable and he talks sense. Well worth … Continue reading →

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Human Despair – Dr Gabor Maté

Posted on June 10, 2015 by Palace Gate Counselling Service

Gabor talking about human nature, and our cultures. Compelling, moving and accurate. Palace Gate Counselling Service, Exeter Counselling Exeter since 1994

Posted in child development, childhood abuse, compassion, conditions of worth, consciousness, core conditions, cultural questions, Disconnection, ecological issues, emotions, empathy, empowerment, ethics, external locus, Gabor Mate, human condition, interconnection & belonging, meaning, organismic experiencing, paradigm shift, perception, photographs & pictures, political, power and powerlessness, psychiatry, reality, relationship, sadness & pain, self, self concept, self esteem, trauma, violence, vulnerability | Tagged affordable counselling exeter, alienation, alienation from self, alienation in relationship, authenticity, belonging, capitalism, community, competition, connection, consumer society, consumerism, core conditions, counselling exeter, counsellor Exeter, counsellors Exeter, creativity, cultural toxicity and health, disconnection, distress, empathy, environmental factors, environmental stressors, Exeter Counselling, existential meaning, Gabor Mate, individualism, interconnectedness, interconnection, interdependence, intimacy, loss of control, loss of meaning, low cost counselling exeter, materialism, nurture, pain, Palace Gate Counselling Service, Palace Gate Counselling Service Exeter, person centred counselling exeter, person-centered, person-centred, relationship, self concept, social isolation, societal responsibility, socio-economic disadvantage, therapeutic effect of community, therapeutic effect of relationship, toxic culture, toxic stress, trauma, web of life, www.palacegatecounselling.org.uk | Leave a comment

Gabor Maté – Toxic Culture, Bioneers Conference 2012

Posted on May 27, 2015 by Palace Gate Counselling Service

‘The birth and death of any phenomena is connected to the birth and death of all other phenomena. The one contains the many, and the many contains the one.’ The Buddha Insightful talk that the ever-watchable Gabor Maté gave at … Continue reading →

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