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Tag Archives: emotional safety
How to prepare emotionally for the death of a difficult parent – Jeff Brown
http://soulshaping.com/soulshaping/difficult-parent/ Helpful piece, thanks Jeff. Palace Gate Counselling Service, Exeter Counselling Exeter since 1994
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When Children Lie – Patty Wipfler – Hand in Hand Parenting
http://www.handinhandparenting.org/article/when-children-lie/ This is a helpful site, and a helpful article, if you are looking to find effective ways to parent outside the culturally prevalent models of fault, blame and punishment. In the writer’s experience, most parents deeply want what is … Continue reading →
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