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Category Archives: shadow
Joanna Macy on the effects of refusing to feel
“The refusal to feel takes a heavy toll. Not only is there an impoverishment of our emotional and sensory life, flowers are dimmer and less fragrant, our loves less ecstatic, but this psychic numbing also impedes our capacity to process … Continue reading
Posted in awakening, cultural questions, Disconnection, emotions, grief, Joanna Macy, power and powerlessness, sadness & pain, shadow
Tagged affordable counselling exeter, Brené Brown, cannot selectively numb, counselling exeter, counsellor Exeter, counsellors Exeter, creativity, disconnection, importance of emotion, importance of feeling, importance of grief, Joanna Macy, low cost counselling exeter, numbing emotion, numbing feeling, Palace Gate Counselling Service, Palace Gate Counselling Service Exeter, person centred counselling exeter, purpose of emotion, World as Lover World as Self, www.palacegatecounselling.org.uk
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Helen Macdonald on landscape nostalgia
“I think of all the complicated histories that landscapes have, and how easy it is to wipe them away, put easier, safer histories in their place. They are only safe for us. The fields where I fly Mabel back in … Continue reading
Posted in accountability, awakening, consciousness, cultural questions, Disconnection, diversity, ecological, ecological issues, ethics, human condition, meaning, natural world, perception, political, shadow
Tagged affordable counselling exeter, anthropocentrism, counselling exeter, counsellor Exeter, counsellors Exeter, disconnectedness, disconnection from the natural world, environmental awareness, environmental stewardship, H is For Hawk, Helen Macdonald, human destruction of diversity, human destruction of habitat, human destruction of species, human disconnection, human impact on landscape, interbeing, interconnectedness, landscape nostalgia, landscapes and meaning, low cost counselling exeter, mass extinction, mutability, Old England, organic farming, Palace Gate Counselling Service, Palace Gate Counselling Service Exeter, permaculture, person centred counselling exeter, solipsism, stewardship, transience, use of herbicides, use of pesticides, www.palacegatecounselling.org.uk
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Henry Beston on our concept of animals
“We need another and a wiser and perhaps a more mystical concept of animals. For the animal shall not be measured by man. In a world older and more complete than ours they move finished and complete, gifted with extensions … Continue reading
Posted in civil rights, community, cultural questions, Disconnection, diversity, embodiment, ethics, interconnection & belonging, natural world, objectification, paradigm shift, perception, shadow, spirituality, values & principles
Tagged affordable counselling exeter, all one, animal medicine, animal teachers, animal wisdom, connectedness, connection, counselling exeter, counsellor Exeter, counsellors Exeter, ego mind, embodied experience, embodiment, fellow travellers, Henry Beston, human disconnection, I Thou relationship, interbeing, interdependence, low cost counselling exeter, meaning, meeting otherness, meeting the other, net of life and time, otherness, Palace Gate Counselling Service, Palace Gate Counselling Service Exeter, paradigm shift, person centred counselling exeter, sacredness, sense of sacred, solipsism, web of life, wisdom of animals, wisdom of natural world, www.palacegatecounselling.org.uk
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Marshall Rosenberg on what peace requires from us
“Peace requires something far more difficult than revenge or merely turning the other cheek; it requires empathizing with the fears and unmet needs that provide the impetus for people to attack each other. Being aware of these feelings and needs, … Continue reading
Posted in 'evil', anger, communication, compassion, conflict, cultural questions, Disconnection, empathy, fear, interconnection & belonging, Marshall Rosenberg, non-violent communication, perception, power and powerlessness, relationship, shadow, violence, vulnerability
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Rachel Naomi Remen on Reclaiming ourselves
“Reclaiming ourselves usually means coming to recognize and accept that we have in us both sides of everything. We are capable of fear and courage, generosity and selfishness, vulnerability and strength. These things do not cancel each other out but … Continue reading
Posted in acceptance, compassion, empowerment, identity, internal locus of evaluation, perception, Rachel Naomi Remen, self, self concept, self esteem, shadow, vulnerability
Tagged acceptance and healing, accepting complexity, accepting yourself, affordable counselling exeter, authenticity, counselling exeter, counsellor Exeter, counsellors Exeter, developing identity, empowerment, escaping binaries, escaping the binary, including yourself, individuation, internal locus, Kitchen Table Wisdom, low cost counselling exeter, maturation process, Palace Gate Counselling Service, Palace Gate Counselling Service Exeter, person centred counselling exeter, Rachel Naomi Remen, Rachel Remen, reclaiming ourselves, reclaiming shadow, self acceptance, self awareness, self compassion, self concept, self judgement, self kindness, self love, self value, self-structure, shortcomings, vulnerability, www.palacegatecounselling.org.uk
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Why We’re Underestimating American Collapse – Umair Haque
https://eand.co/why-were-underestimating-american-collapse-be04d9e55235 Click on the above link to Eudaimonia’s site for this – perceptive, insightful and scarily accurate from where we are looking – piece by Umair Haque, on the cultural pathologies of the current US situation, and what this means … Continue reading
Posted in 'evil', community, compulsive behaviour, cultural questions, Disconnection, human condition, interconnection & belonging, objectification, perception, political, power, power and powerlessness, relationship, shadow, transformation, trauma, values & principles, violence
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Too right it’s Black Friday: our relentless consumption is trashing the planet George Monbiot
https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2017/nov/22/black-friday-consumption-killing-planet-growth? Click on the above link to visit the Guardian for this article by George Monbiot, to mark last week’s ‘Black Friday’. ‘When you hear that something makes economic sense, this means it makes the opposite of common sense. Those … Continue reading
Posted in accountability, awakening, boundaries, compulsive behaviour, cultural questions, dependence, Disconnection, ecological, ecological issues, ethics, George Monbiot, growth, human condition, mindfulness, natural world, paradigm shift, perception, political, reality, resilience, risk, shadow, violence, vulnerability
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