Category Archives: body psychotherapy

‘The Death Mother’ Toko-pa

Posted on May 11, 2016 by Palace Gate Counselling Service

The Death Mother Click on the link for this interesting and profound book review from Toko-pa – containing several useful links – on the archetype and meanings of the Death Mother:- ‘If you were the child of a mother crippled by her own … Continue reading →

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How to prepare emotionally for the death of a difficult parent – Jeff Brown

Posted on November 11, 2015 by Palace Gate Counselling Service

http://soulshaping.com/soulshaping/difficult-parent/ Helpful piece, thanks Jeff. Palace Gate Counselling Service, Exeter Counselling Exeter since 1994

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Christine Caldwell on Acceptance & Internal Locus

Posted on July 10, 2014 by Palace Gate Counselling Service

‘Most of us have learned to view acceptance with suspicion and mistrust. We equate acceptance with acquiescence, or with the condoning of indiscriminate behaviour. This occurs when we get confused about what acceptance is. Acceptance is not something we can … Continue reading →

Posted in acceptance, body psychotherapy, Christine Caldwell, external locus, healing, human condition, internal locus of evaluation, person centred, reality | Tagged acceptance, body-centred psychotherapy, body-centred therapy, bodywork, Christine Caldwell, embodiment, external locus, Getting Our Bodies Back, internal locus, Palace Gate Counselling Service, person-centred, somatic psychotherapy, somatic therapy, you made me feel, you make me feel | Leave a comment

Mark Walsh: The Disembodied Mess We’re in

Posted on July 7, 2014 by Palace Gate Counselling Service

Click on the title/link for this powerful and passionate plea from Mark Walsh about our deep need for an embodied experience of ourselves, and the cultural sickness evidenced and perpetuated by our disconnection from our own bodies. Palace Gate Counselling … Continue reading →

Posted in body psychotherapy, bodywork, Disconnection, human condition, paradigm shift, physical being, touch, violence | Tagged Buber, dehumanisation, dehumanization, disconnection, disembodiment, embodied, embodied experience, embodiment, I it relationship, Mark Walsh, objectification, Palace Gate Counselling Service, physical being | Leave a comment

Asaf Rolef Ben-Shahar: Touching the Relational Edge

Posted on March 18, 2014 by Palace Gate Counselling Service

‘There are some pubs where any topic of conversation is allowed except for politics. The combination of alcohol and political discourse usually ends up with fists. In these pubs you may speak and fight over football, rugby, or the royal … Continue reading →

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