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Tag Archives: I it relationship
Liz Gilbert on Mercy
Timely post from Liz on the high cost of ‘othering’ people, our interdependence and our need for compassion towards ourselves and each other. Here’s her latest book:- And here’s Mary Gauthier, on the same theme:- Mary Gauthier: ‘Mercy Now’ Palace Gate … Continue reading →
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Person-centred Basics – Janet Tolan on Labels
The third in our occasional series of some person-centred fundamentals. ‘There are many ways of describing people who use services such as housing, education and health. Some of these are also used of counselling clients: this client is “manipulative”, that … Continue reading →
Posted in 'evil', abuse, accountability, actualizing tendency, blaming, Carl Rogers, compassion, conditions of worth, congruence, core conditions, cultural questions, Disconnection, diversity, empathy, encounter, ethics, external locus, fear, growth, interconnection & belonging, internal locus of evaluation, Janet Tolan, love, meaning, non-conforming, non-directive counselling, objectification, organismic experiencing, perception, person centred, person centred theory, political, presence, psychiatry, reality, relationship, sadness & pain, shadow, shaming, therapeutic growth, therapeutic relationship, unconditional positive regard, values & principles, working with clients
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Mark Walsh: The Disembodied Mess We’re in
Click on the title/link for this powerful and passionate plea from Mark Walsh about our deep need for an embodied experience of ourselves, and the cultural sickness evidenced and perpetuated by our disconnection from our own bodies. Palace Gate Counselling … Continue reading →
Posted in body psychotherapy, bodywork, Disconnection, human condition, paradigm shift, physical being, touch, violence
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Tagged Buber, dehumanisation, dehumanization, disconnection, disembodiment, embodied, embodied experience, embodiment, I it relationship, Mark Walsh, objectification, Palace Gate Counselling Service, physical being
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