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Tag Archives: the man in the arena
Never Read the Comments – Liz Gilbert
” This feels personally relevant to the writer, who has her own experience of group attack, including via the internet, and (some) people’s willingness to make sweeping and vicious statements about other human beings they have never met, based on one … Continue reading →
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Brené Brown: Why Your Critics Aren’t The Ones Who Count
Another useful talk from Brené Brown, which explores creativity, criticism and how she has learned to deal with it. She talks about how important it is that those of us she calls the ‘sweaty creatives’ – or, borrowing from Theodore Roosevelt’s famous words, … Continue reading →
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Brené Brown: Listening to Shame
Brené talking about vulnerability as courage, and as the source of creativity and change – so personally, relationally and culturally vital. She talks too about the importance of engaging with shame. She comments that she did not learn about the … Continue reading →
Posted in Brene Brown, cultural questions, empathy, human condition, relationship, shame, TED, vulnerability
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