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Spinning Straw – Tracy Cochran

Posted on September 12, 2017 by Palace Gate Counselling Service

Spinning Straw, by Tracy Cochran Click on the link above to visit the site for Parabola Magazine for this remarkable reworking of the Brothers Grimm. It is not long since we published a piece by Tracy – but the writer … Continue reading →

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Not This – Liz Gilbert

Posted on April 27, 2016 by Palace Gate Counselling Service

A helpful post from Liz (‘Eat, Pray, Love’) Gilbert. Many of the people who come to our service have reached the point of ‘Not This’. Those arriving at this realization may have no idea how to extricate themselves from the situation they are … Continue reading →

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Brené Brown on Joy: It’s Terrifying

Posted on September 25, 2014 by Palace Gate Counselling Service

Click on the link for this short film of Oprah and Brené, talking about joy, love, terror and vulnerability. We agree about the practice of gratitude – whether in the form of a gratitude journal or something less structured. If … Continue reading →

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