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‘People (often) don’t need help. They need love. Acceptance’ Monica Cassani
People (often) don’t need help. They need love. Acceptance. Click on the above link to visit Monica Cassani’s superb resource site: http://www.beyondmeds.com This post describes person-centred in a nutshell, and is what we seek to offer at this service: holding loving … Continue reading →
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What it Really Means to Hold Space for Someone – Heather Plett
http://upliftconnect.com/hold-space/ Click on the above link for this wonderful piece on Uplift Connect from May this year by Heather – not generally a fan of ‘8 tips’ type articles, but been meaning to post this for ages… The space-holding qualities … Continue reading →
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Johann Hari on Addiction
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/johann-hari/the-real-cause-of-addicti_b_6506936.html Click on the link for this excellent article. We have seen this in a number of places over the past few days (thank you, Brent Potter and Monica Cassani), and it deserves a wide audience. The writer’s sense at … Continue reading →
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