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Oriah Mountain Dreamer on being lied about

Posted on September 23, 2016 by Palace Gate Counselling Service

The writer is only too familiar with the feeling Oriah describes: ‘constricted, shaken, a little frantic….helpless’ – and with the inward and outward impacts of being privately and publicly lied about, with significant harm done. At one level she subscribes … Continue reading →

Posted in abuse, anger, blaming, boundaries, bullying, compulsive behaviour, conflict, cultural questions, emotions, empowerment, loss, objectification, Oriah Mountain Dreamer, Palace Gate Counselling Service, power and powerlessness, presence, resilience, sadness & pain, scapegoating, shadow, shaming, trauma, vulnerability | Tagged abusive behaviour, acceptance, affordable counselling exeter, being lied about, being with difficult feelings, being with uncomfortable feelings, blame and shame, blame model, blaming, conflict, conflict resolution, controlling behaviour, counselling exeter, counsellor Exeter, counsellors Exeter, creating space, dealing with difficult feelings, dealing with injustice, dealing with uncomfortable feelings, dealing with unfairness, despair, family dynamics, group dynamics, harm done, Helplessness, holding difficult feelings, holding uncomfortable feelings, intent to cause harm, intention to cause harm, Karen Davis, lack of control, low cost counselling exeter, Open Door Dreaming, Oriah Mountain Dreamer, Palace Gate Counselling Service, Palace Gate Counselling Service Exeter, person centred counselling exeter, powerlessness, projecting shadow, public attack, public humiliation, reputational damage, reputational harm, self concept, self-structure, shaming, shared humanity, sharing experience, sitting with feelings, spaciousness, spirituality, surrender, Telling lies, unawareness, www.palacegatecounselling.org.uk | Leave a comment

John Bradshaw on the process of alienation

Posted on November 8, 2015 by Palace Gate Counselling Service

‘A child is born self-connected and has an organismic sense of wholeness with relation to each of its powers, drives, and needs. Once a power, drive, or need is shamed, it becomes disconnected. As the shaming continues and intensifies, the … Continue reading →

Posted in 'evil', abuse, childhood abuse, compulsive behaviour, cultural questions, Disconnection, emotions, empathy, external locus, fear, growing up, James Hillman, John Bradshaw, objectification, perception, power and powerlessness, relationship, sadness & pain, self concept, sexual violence, shadow, shame, shaming, trauma, violence, vulnerability | Tagged abusive behaviour, abusive relationship, affordable counselling exeter, alienation, awareness, confusing abuse with love, counselling exeter, counsellor Exeter, counsellors Exeter, Creating Love, disconnection, distorted perception, distorted reality, empathy, fear, freedom of choice, inner resources, John Bradshaw, lack of awareness, loss of awareness, loss of freedom of choice, low cost counselling exeter, mystification, organismic, Palace Gate Counselling Service, Palace Gate Counselling Service Exeter, perception, self concept, sense of wholeness. self structure, separation, shame, shaming, splitting, trauma, tunnel vision, wholeness, www.palacegatecounselling.org.uk | Leave a comment

Aaron Paquette on Addiction

Posted on February 14, 2015 by Palace Gate Counselling Service

This link is to Aaron’s Facebook page. Aaron is a First Nations Metis artist, author and speaker, based in Edmonton, Aberta. This post is about addiction. He makes sense of this much as we do at this service, and similarly … Continue reading →

Posted in Aaron Paquette, abuse, acceptance, child development, childhood abuse, compulsive behaviour, consciousness, core conditions, cultural questions, Disconnection, emotions, Gabor Mate, growth, healing, love, person centred, power and powerlessness, relationship, therapeutic growth, therapeutic relationship, trauma | Tagged Aaron Paquette, abusive behaviour, acceptance, addiction, addictive behaviour, adverse childhood event, affordable counselling exeter, childhood trauma, compassion, compulsive behaviour, compulsive eating, controlling behaviour, counselling exeter, counsellor Exeter, counsellors Exeter, Gabor Mate, healing, hoarding, love, low cost counselling exeter, Palace Gate Counselling Service, Palace Gate Counselling Service Exeter, person centred counselling exeter, power, powerlessness, relationship, self harm, self medication, substance abuse, therapeutic relationship, trauma, www.palacegatecounselling.org.uk | Leave a comment

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