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Tag Archives: self harm
Jeff Brown on repressing feeling
“Too many of us move through our lives with our true selves buried below layers of repressed emotion. With so much energy channeled toward sustaining the repression, there is little left over for the deeper questions. The consequences of our … Continue reading
Posted in consciousness, cultural questions, Disconnection, emotions, fear, Jeff Brown, power and powerlessness, Rumi, sadness & pain, self concept, shadow
Tagged affordable counselling exeter, avoiding difficult feeling, avoiding painful feelings, avoiding uncomfortable feeling, containing feeling, counselling exeter, counsellor Exeter, counsellors Exeter, dealing with your stuff, difficult feeling, guarding against the fire, Jeff Brown, low cost counselling exeter, Palace Gate Counselling Service, Palace Gate Counselling Service Exeter, person centred counselling exeter, repressing emotion, repressing feeling, Rumi, self concept, self creation, self harm, self protection, Soulshaping, suppressing emotion, suppressing feeling, uncomfortable feeling, www.palacegatecounselling.org.uk
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Learning to be with ourselves: a response to Understanding Psychosis – Elizabeth Svanholmer
http://beyondmeds.com/2015/04/20/learning/ Click on the link to visit Monica Cassani’s resource-rich site, http://www.beyondmeds.com, for this great piece by Elizabeth Svanholmer, commenting on the recent report by The British Psychological Society, Division of Clinical Psychology, edited by Anne Cooke and entitled:- ‘Understanding … Continue reading
Posted in anti-psychotics, CBT, childhood abuse, client as 'expert', clients' perspective, cognitive, communication, compulsive behaviour, conditions of worth, core conditions, cultural questions, emotions, empathy, empowerment, equality, ethics, external locus, fear, growth, healing, hearing voices, iatrogenic illness, internal locus of evaluation, kindness & compassion, love, mindfulness, Monica Cassani, non-conforming, non-directive counselling, objectification, organismic experiencing, Palace Gate Counselling Service, paradigm shift, perception, person centred, person centred theory, political, power and powerlessness, psychiatric abuse, psychiatric drugs, psychiatry, psychosis, RD Laing, relationship, research evidence, sadness & pain, schizophrenia, sexual violence, shame, suicide, therapeutic growth, therapeutic relationship, trauma, trust, values & principles, violence, vulnerability, working with clients
Tagged affordable counselling exeter, alternative models of care, Anne Cooke, autonomy, British Psychological Society, British Psychological Society report, coercive conformity, coercive psychiatric treatment, coercive reality, confusion, counselling exeter, counsellor Exeter, counsellors Exeter, cultural oppression, delusions, Elizabeth Svanholmer, empathy, fear, hearing voices, Karl Menninger, Laing, low cost counselling exeter, mental health, Monica Cassani, oppression, Palace Gate Counselling Service, Palace Gate Counselling Service Exeter, person centred counselling exeter, person-centered, person-centred, Psychosis, psychotic episodes, psychotic experiences, RD Laing, Rufus May, Sally Edwards, schizo-affective disorder, schizoaffective disorder, schizophrenia, self harm, self harming, sovereignty, www.beyondmeds.com, www.palacegatecounselling.org.uk
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The Hope Chest: The writing on the wall – Kim Johancen-Walt
http://ct.counseling.org/2015/03/the-hope-chest-the-writing-on-the-wall/ Interesting couple of case studies with Kim’s thoughts, from Counseling Today, a publication of The American Counseling Association. Palace Gate Counselling Service, Exeter
Posted in abuse, acceptance, actualizing tendency, anger, awakening, beauty, childhood abuse, compulsive behaviour, conditions of worth, conflict, core conditions, dependence, Disconnection, Eating, emotions, empowerment, encounter, external locus, family systems, fear, forgiveness, grief, growth, healing, identity, internal locus of evaluation, kindness & compassion, loss, love, meaning, perception, person centred, person centred theory, power and powerlessness, presence, relationship, sadness & pain, self, self concept, self esteem, suicide, surrender, therapeutic growth, therapeutic relationship, transformation, trauma, trust, violence, vulnerability, working with clients
Tagged abandonment, abuse, acceptance, achievement, acknowledgement, adverse childhood experience, affordable counselling exeter, alcohol abuse, American Counseling Association, approval, awareness, awareness and change, behaviour patterns, childhood physical abuse, childhood sexual abuse, childhood violent abuse, commitment in therapy, compassion, complex grief, complicated grief, conditions of worth, Counseling Today, counselling exeter, counsellor Exeter, counsellors Exeter, cycles of abandonment, cycles of abuse, depression, despair, expectations in therapy, forgiveness, frustration, good enough, grief, growth, healing, hope, identity, Kim Johancen-Walt, letting go, limiting beliefs, loss, love, loving kindness, low cost counselling exeter, Maitri, meaning, minimizing feelings, natural healing process, not good enough, numbing, Palace Gate Counselling Service, Palace Gate Counselling Service Exeter, perfectionism, perpetuating abuse, perpetuating trauma, person centred counselling exeter, person-centered, person-centred, personal experience, personal identity, personal needs, powerlessness, recovery, relationship, self abandonment, self abuse, self concept, self criticism, self esteem, self harm, self medication, self punishment, self worth, self-injury, stuckness, stuckness in therapy, substance abuse, suicidal ideation, suicidal intention, suicidal thoughts, suicide, surrender, The Hope Chest, therapeutic growth, therapeutic process, therapeutic relationship, thought patterns, transformative change, trauma, unconditional positive regard, unresolved grief, UPR, victim identity, victim mentality, victim mindset, victimhood, withholding love, www.palacegatecounselling.org.uk
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Aaron Paquette on Addiction
This link is to Aaron’s Facebook page. Aaron is a First Nations Metis artist, author and speaker, based in Edmonton, Aberta. This post is about addiction. He makes sense of this much as we do at this service, and similarly … Continue reading
Posted in Aaron Paquette, abuse, acceptance, child development, childhood abuse, compulsive behaviour, consciousness, core conditions, cultural questions, Disconnection, emotions, Gabor Mate, growth, healing, love, person centred, power and powerlessness, relationship, therapeutic growth, therapeutic relationship, trauma
Tagged Aaron Paquette, abusive behaviour, acceptance, addiction, addictive behaviour, adverse childhood event, affordable counselling exeter, childhood trauma, compassion, compulsive behaviour, compulsive eating, controlling behaviour, counselling exeter, counsellor Exeter, counsellors Exeter, Gabor Mate, healing, hoarding, love, low cost counselling exeter, Palace Gate Counselling Service, Palace Gate Counselling Service Exeter, person centred counselling exeter, power, powerlessness, relationship, self harm, self medication, substance abuse, therapeutic relationship, trauma, www.palacegatecounselling.org.uk
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Michael Eigen on learning to be with our scream
‘Just because one is a baby and stops screaming, it doesn’t mean that the scream goes away inside. There is a scream that goes on all life long no matter who we are or what we do. Some of us … Continue reading
Posted in conditions of worth, consciousness, core conditions, emotions, fear, grief, healing, human condition, loneliness, loss, love, Michael Eigen, organismic experiencing, Palace Gate Counselling Service, perception, person centred, relationship, sadness & pain, self concept, shadow, suicide, therapeutic growth, therapeutic relationship, trauma, violence, vulnerability, working with clients
Tagged acting out, actualising, actualizing, adverse childhood experience, affordable counselling exeter, childhood distress, conditions of worth, counselling exeter, counsellor Exeter, counsellors Exeter, defensive structures, distress, emotional pain, experiential learning, grief, healing, low cost counselling exeter, Michael Eigen, organismic, organismic experience, pain, Palace Gate Counselling Service, Palace Gate Counselling Service Exeter, person centred counselling exeter, person-centered, person-centred, scream, self concept, self harm, shadow, suicide, therapeutic change, therapeutic growth, therapeutic process, therapeutic relationship, trauma, violence, vulnerability, working with clients, www.palacegatecounselling.org.uk
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John O’Donohue on Addiction, with Declan Tarpey
The language of ‘addict/addiction’ is not necessarily how we would frame it from a person-centred perspective. We resonate with the content, both in terms of what Declan says and John’s wonderful poem. Palace Gate Counselling Service, Exeter Addiction: For An … Continue reading
Posted in compulsive behaviour, Disconnection, John O'Donohue, loneliness, sadness & pain, therapeutic growth
Tagged actualising, actualizing, addiction, Addiction: For An Addict, addictive behaviour, belonging, Book of Blessings, compulsion, compulsive behaviour, Declan Tarpey, despair, intimacy, isolation, John O'Donohue, loneliness, moth to flame, obsessive behaviour, OCD, organismic experiencing, Palace Gate Counselling Service, relationship, self harm, self-destructive behaviour, therapeutic growth, therapeutic relationship
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Lessons from the Mental Hospital: Glennon Doyle Melton at TED
Powerful account from Glennon of her personal journey – through conditions of worth and pretence into self-acceptance; through using alcohol, drugs and eating to disconnect from difficult experience/emotion, into organismic experiencing and connection with her feeling self/others. Palace Gate Counselling … Continue reading
Posted in actualizing tendency, clients' perspective, conditions of worth, Disconnection, Eating, interconnection & belonging, sadness & pain, self concept, shame, TED, therapeutic growth
Tagged 'eating disorder', abusive eating, actualising, actualizing, addiction, alcohol abuse, anger, anxiety, binging, Brené Brown, bulimia, compulsive behaviour, conditions of worth, destructive behaviour, disconnection, fear, Glennon Doyle Melton, organismic experience, Palace Gate Counselling Service, person-centred, pretending, purging, self concept, self harm, separation, TED, truth
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