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How America’s Culture of Shame is a Killer for Boys – Mark Greene

Posted on April 28, 2015 by Palace Gate Counselling Service

http://goodmenproject.com/featured-content/megasahd-why-americas-culture-of-shame-is-killing-us/ This article by Mark is wonderful, and the writer was crying before the end…Although the title gives a masculine focus, the points made are valid for us all, however we self describe/make sense of gender. This is the second … Continue reading →

Posted in bullying, conditions of worth, cultural questions, emotions, empathy, fear, growing up, identity, kindness & compassion, Mark Greene, Monica Lewinsky, paradigm shift, parenting, political, power and powerlessness, relationship, self, self concept, self esteem, shame, TED, trauma, vulnerability | Tagged addictive behaviour, affordable counselling exeter, alcohol abuse, alcoholism, alienation, antisocial behaviour, approval, authority, binary, body image, bullying, child development, Child Trends Data Bank, childhood trauma, coercive conformity, compassion, conformity, conscious parenting, contempt, corporal punishment, counselling exeter, counsellor Exeter, counsellors Exeter, cruelty, cultural difference, cultural diversity, culture of shame, cycles of shame, defensive, delinquency, depression, despair, disapproval, diversity, divorce, drug abuse, external locus, fear, good enough, grief, humiliation, internal dialogue, internalised values, internalized values, introjections, kindness, listening, loss, low cost counselling exeter, Mark Greene, Palace Gate Counselling Service, Palace Gate Counselling Service Exeter, parenting, permission, person centred counselling exeter, personhood, political, problem behaviours in adolescence, psychological problems, public shaming, punishment, relationship, religious difference, Saliha Bava, self condemnation, self preservation, self-destructive behaviour, self-fulfilling prophesy, self-loathing, selfish, sexual diversity, sexual shaming, shame, shaming as bloodsport, spanking, spanking as shaming, www.goodmenproject.com, www.palacegatecounselling.org.uk | Leave a comment

Violence – a family tradition: Robbyn Peters Bennett at TEDxBellingham

Posted on June 1, 2014 by Palace Gate Counselling Service

Found this powerful and moving – thanks, Monica, for posting it. It’s about parenting and child development, and especially the harmful impact of physical punishment (something on which over 90% of the research evidence agrees). We especially like how Robbyn … Continue reading →

Posted in child development, childhood abuse, cultural questions, education, family systems, Monica Cassani, parenting, power, research evidence, teaching, trauma, violence | Tagged behavioural issues, beyondmeds.com, child behaviour, child development, childhood trauma, co-regulation, corporal punishment, domestic violence, early years, Monica Cassani, physical punishment, Robbyn Peters Bennett, self regulation, spanking, TED, TEDx, violence against children, working with children | Leave a comment

Parenting: Some useful info/resources re spanking/physical punishment

Posted on January 30, 2014 by Palace Gate Counselling Service

Parenting: Some useful info/resources re spanking/physical punishment Thank you again, Monica. Well worth a read, and lots of useful links. (For the less computer-loving, click on the title to get to Monica’s post!)

Posted in parenting | Tagged child development, conscious parenting, corporal punishment, parenting, physical punishment, research, spanking | Leave a comment

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How America’s Culture of Shame is a Killer for Boys – Mark Greene

Violence – a family tradition: Robbyn Peters Bennett at TEDxBellingham

Parenting: Some useful info/resources re spanking/physical punishment

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