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Hello self-loathing, my old friend – Elisabeth Svanholmer
Hello Self-loathing, my old friend… Click on the link above to visit Elisabeth’s website – http://www.livinglifegently.live – to read this post. The writer experiences regular turns of this wheel herself, and so do most of those she works with. Elisabeth’s perspective … Continue reading →
Posted in acceptance, autonomy, conditions of worth, cultural questions, cultural taboos, emotions, empathy, encounter, equality, ethics, external locus, guilt, hearing voices, immanence, internal locus of evaluation, Jung, kindness & compassion, perception, power and powerlessness, sadness & pain, self, self concept, self esteem, shadow, shame, unconditional positive regard, values & principles, violence, vulnerability
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Tagged acceptance, affirmations, alienation, attachment to beliefs, attempt to reassure, autonomy, awareness, being alongside, being disliked, being judged, belief and sense of purpose, belief systems, better than, body shame, boundaries, cocooning, colluding, community, configurations of self, conflicting beliefs, connection, core belief, cycles of anxiety, cycles of overwhelm, cycles of self loathing, cycles of shame, darker side of being human, death cafes, desire to be hurt, desire to hurt, dialoguing, differing perceptions, differing realities, differing understandings, difficult emotions, discerning, dishonesty, distressing belief, distrust, Elisabeth Svanholmer, emotional withdrawal, emotions, equality, ethical standards, existential meaning, expanding awareness, expressing needs, expression of needs, feeling ashamed of fantasies, feeling ashamed of thoughts, feeling chosen, feeling disconnected, feeling dismissed, feeling frustrated, feeling powerless, feeling special, feeling superior, feeling unacceptable, feeling undeserving, feeling unlovable, feeling unworthy, finding hope, fixing, giving yourself permission, gratitude, hardwired for connection, harshness, harshness to self, hating yourself, having horrible thoughts, hearing multiple voices, hearing voices, hiding from others, hiding from self, higher power, holding beliefs lightly, holding reality lightly, holding space, honouring parts of self, hopefulness, horribleness, human needs, humble, humility, immanence, incongruence, inferiority, intentions, keeping safe, making sense of experience, megalomania, not knowing, numbing, offering reassurance, organising experiences, others’ expectations, pain of self loathing, pep talks, perceptions, pleasing everybody, pleasing people, positive affirmations, protective beliefs, proving yourself, reassuring, recognition, repression, rescuing, secret keeping, seeking approval, seeking reassurance, seeking relief, self care, self compassion, self concept, self containment, self empathy, self hate, self love, self pity, self protection, self talk, self-loathing, self-structure, sense of equality, sense of purpose, shadow, shame, shameful dreams, simplifying beliefs, something wrong with me, spiritual bypass, states of being, staying safe, superiority, suppression, taboos, temporary emotional states, trust, trying to be liked, uncertainty, uncertainty of multiple realities, uncomfortable emotions, unconditional positive regard, unconscious behaviour, unconscious living, unique being, violence, violence to self, Voice Dialogue, withdrawing, witnessing, worthiness, www.livinglifegently.live
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Paul Gordon on unfettered capitalism & coercive conformity
‘The past two decades have witnessed unprecedented changes in the economic and political organisation of the world. We live, we are constantly told, in the era of globalisation, a euphemism for the triumph throughout the world of the so-called free … Continue reading →
Posted in abuse, autonomy, civil rights, conditions of worth, consciousness, cultural questions, Disconnection, ethics, meaning, non-directive counselling, objectification, Palace Gate Counselling Service, Paul Gordon, person centred, political, power and powerlessness, regulation, risk, sustainability, violence, working with clients
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Tagged acquired passivity, affordable counselling exeter, authoritarianism, awareness, being objectified, bourgeois epoch, Castoriadis, coercion and control, coercive conformity, coercive culture, commodifying human beings, Communist Manifesto, consumer culture, consumer society, consumerism, corrosion of character, counselling exeter, counsellor Exeter, counsellors Exeter, cultural insecurity, cultural norms, cultural toxicity, cultural uncertainty, dehumanising, dehumanizing, devaluing of public sector, devaluing skills, disconnection, disturbance of social conditions, doctrinaire social authoritarianism, economic exploitation, emotional harm, enforced conformity, Engels, erosion of certainty, erosion of sense of purpose, ethical beliefs, existential meaning, fallacy of growth economy, feeling invaded, feeling objectified, finding meaning, flexibility in workplace, generalised conformity, generalized conformity, globalisation, globalization, Hope of Therapy, illusion of choice, illusion of freedom, illusion of success, insecurity, invasive behaviour, John Berger, lack of meaning, learned passivity, long term therapeutic work, loss of safe space, loss of sense of purpose, low cost counselling exeter, Marx, neo liberalism, objectification, objectifying, Palace Gate Counselling Service, Palace Gate Counselling Service Exeter, participating in passivity, Paul Gordon, person centred counselling exeter, personal invasion, political fundamentalism, power and control, power over, presence, psychological harm, pursuit of profit, regulating counselling, regulating psychotherapy, regulating therapy, regulation debate, regulation of counselling, regulation of psychotherapy, regulation of therapy, religious fundamentalism, Richard Sennett, risk society, sacred space, sacredness, safe space, search for meaning, sense of meaninglessness, sense of purpose, sense of sacred, social agitation, social authoritarianism, social distress, social exploitation, social inequality, social insecurity, social uncertainty, spectre of uselessness, therapeutic relationship, toxic cultural norms, uncertainty, undermining of certainties, unfettered capitalism, untrammelled consumerism, www.palacegatecounselling.org.uk
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Michael Bernard Beckwith: Are You Serving the Emerging Paradigm?
Click on the link to visit You Tube for this brief film (under 5 minutes) in which Michael Beckwith talks about the ethic of service; serving the emerging paradigm; and the work happening worldwide to support that emergence. We see … Continue reading →
Posted in actualizing tendency, awakening, communication, consciousness, cultural questions, Disconnection, ethics, good, growth, healing, human condition, interconnection & belonging, meaning, Palace Gate Counselling Service, paradigm shift, perception, power and powerlessness, reality, shadow, transformation
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Tagged affordable counselling exeter, Agape Center, Agape Centre, alienation, connectedness, connection, counselling exeter, counsellor Exeter, counsellors Exeter, dying paradigm, emerging consciousness, emerging paradigm, ethic of service, evolving consciousness, existential meaning, generosity, giving your gift, giving your gifts, holding sacred space, holding space, holistic being, human condition, human experience, interconnection, interdependence, kindness, life purpose, low cost counselling exeter, maieusis, meaning in life, meaning of life, Michael Bernard Beckwith, new paradigm, Omega Institute, Palace Gate Counselling Service, Palace Gate Counselling Service Exeter, paradigm shift, person centred counselling exeter, radical generosity, saving the world, self expression, self realisation, self realization, sense of purpose, sense of sacred, sense of separation, separation, serving the emerging paradigm, soul contract, soul purpose, thought forms, vision of possibility, www.palacegatecounselling.org.uk
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