Tag Archives: ritual

Raising your Havingness Ceiling – Toko-pa

Posted on October 3, 2016 by Palace Gate Counselling Service

Raising your Havingness Ceiling Click on the above link for this wonderful post by Toko-pa, who is regularly featured here:- ‘As soon as we begin to feel resigned with things being as they are, it is time to resume the … Continue reading →

Posted in acceptance, actualizing tendency, awakening, beauty, consciousness, consent, creativity, empowerment, flow, gratitude, growth, meaning, metaphor & dream, perception, power and powerlessness, reality, risk, self, self concept, self esteem, surrender, Toko-pa, transformation, trust, vulnerability | Tagged ability to receive, abundance, acceptance of loss, affordable counselling exeter, armouring, completer finisher, consciousness, conversation with our edge, counselling exeter, counsellor Exeter, counsellors Exeter, creating abundance, creating an altar, creativity, cycle of life, de-armouring, dealing with rejection, death and rebirth, difficult experience, difficult feeling, dreaming big, encountering challenge, experiencing enthusiasm, experiencing joy, following through, forming intention, gratitude, gratitude journal, havingness, importance of risk, importance of vulnerability, inspiration, intention as prayer, limiting beliefs, living edge, low cost counselling exeter, manifesting abundance, meeting your edge, myth, never settle, Palace Gate Counselling Service, Palace Gate Counselling Service Exeter, paradox, person centred counselling exeter, possibility space, power of the unknown, practice of gratitude, realising potential, reality bending, realizing potential, receiving appreciation, receiving love, risking feeling exposed, risking vulnerability, ritual, scarcity mindset, self belief, self care, self esteem, self limiting beliefs, self protection, self worth, settling, settling for less, surrender, taking risks, Toko-pa, Tokopa, transition, uncomfortable experience, uncomfortable feeling, vulnerability, worthiness, www.palacegatecounselling.org.uk | Leave a comment

Belonging: Be the Longing – Toko-pa

Posted on March 28, 2016 by Palace Gate Counselling Service

Click on the link at the end of this piece for Toko-pa’s wonderful post. ‘The ache to belong in friendship and community can be so pervasive that it colours everything we do.‘ The writer stumbled across these words yesterday, and … Continue reading →

Posted in acceptance, actualizing tendency, beauty, consciousness, core conditions, creativity, cultural questions, Disconnection, fear, friendship, grief, identity, immanence, interconnection & belonging, John O'Donohue, kindness & compassion, loneliness, loss, love, meaning, non-conforming, perception, presence, relationship, sadness & pain, self, spirituality, surrender, Toko-pa, transformation, trust, vulnerability | Tagged absence, ache to belong, actualising and belonging, actualizing and belonging, adrift, affordable counselling exeter, alienation, ambiguity, ancestors, Be The Longing, beauty, being seen, belonging, calling homeward, caretaking, certainty, community, compliance, conforming, consciousness, context, counselling exeter, counsellor Exeter, counsellors Exeter, creativity, diminishing ourselves, disconnection, dreamspeak, enlarging our lives, ethic of service, existential meaning, expansion, fear, finding our tribe, fitting in, fog of modernity, Francis Weller, friendship, gathering, generosity, giving, grief, heart's longing, humility, hungry ghosts, individuating and belonging, individuation, interconnectedness, interconnection, isolation, John O'Donohue, joining established groups, joining groups, kindness, Llama Surya Das, loneliness, longing, longing for community, low cost counselling exeter, Max Ginsburg, meaningful life, need for tribe, need to belong, non conformity, non-conforming, offering, orphan, Palace Gate Counselling Service, Palace Gate Counselling Service Exeter, paradox, person centred counselling exeter, presence, recognition, resilience, responsibility, ritual, Soul Activist, spiritual practice, spirituality, stewardship, suppressing own being, suppressing self, the responsible one, Toko-pa, tribe, unmet longing, validation, vulnerability, wanting to belong, What about me?, wisdom, writing, www.palacegatecounselling.org.uk, yearning to belong | Leave a comment

The Longing for Belonging – Charles Eisenstein

Posted on August 23, 2015 by Palace Gate Counselling Service

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/charles-eisenstein/indigeneity-and-belonging_b_8011302.html Originally written for our local Schumacher College, in the context of a course Charles was leading. Charles features regularly on this blog – the writer believes him to be one of the important thinkers and writers of our time. … Continue reading →

Posted in awakening, Charles Eisenstein, communication, compassion, consciousness, core conditions, cultural questions, dependence, Disconnection, ecological, education, empathy, empowerment, encounter, equality, ethics, external locus, flow, good, gratitude, growth, guilt, human condition, identity, immanence, interconnection & belonging, internal locus of evaluation, kindness & compassion, loneliness, love, meaning, medical model, natural world, non-conforming, objectification, organismic experiencing, paradigm shift, perception, physical being, political, power and powerlessness, presence, reality, relationship, rewilding, self, self concept, spirituality, sustainability, touch, transformation, values & principles | Tagged abundance, achievement, affordable counselling exeter, agency, alienating systems, alienation, aliveness, ancestors, awakening, Becoming Indigenous, belonging, belonging to a place, belongingness, Big Pharma, body as a thing, body as an object, boundaries, capitalism, ceremony, challenge, challenging harm, change, Charles Eisenstein, collective being, coming home, commodity economy, community, competition, competitive, conforming, conformity, connection, consciousness, consumerism, control, controlling, counselling exeter, counsellor Exeter, counsellors Exeter, dependency, dependency on experts, disease model, disembodiment, disorder model, dominating civilization, domination, eco sexual, ecosexual, embedded, embodied experience, embodiment, external locus, feeling of belonging, Finding Our Way Home, flexible boundaries, flow, fluid boundaries, fluidity, generosity, gift culture, gift interactions, giving, globalisation, globalization, gratitude, group energy, group field, guilt, home, home in the world, homecoming, identity, ideology of reductionism, indigeneity, indigenous, indigenous people, indigenous spirituality, industrial food system, initiation, inseparable, intelligence, interbeing, interconnectedness, interconnection, interdependence, internal locus, intimacy, intimate relationship to nature, intuition, kindness, kinship, lost connections, love, low cost counselling exeter, materialism, medical model, modern medicine, money economy, mythology of separation, native spirituality, nature of reality, non sexual touch, non-separation, normalcy, normalisation, normalization, objectification, objectifying, oneness, oppression, organismic experience, Palace Gate Counselling Service, Palace Gate Counselling Service Exeter, participation, patriarchal attitudes, patriarchy, person centred counselling exeter, purpose, reality, receiving, reclaiming a sense of belonging, reductionism, relationship, ritual, Schumacher College, Self, sense of belonging, separate self, separation, sexual touch, sexuality, social relationships, spirituality, standardisation, standardization, story, Story of Separation, strangers, theory of change, Touch, tribe, uniqueness, victim, virtual experience, web of life, www.palacegatecounselling.org.uk | Leave a comment

How to Find Your Bliss: Joseph Campbell on What It Takes to Have a Fulfilling Life by Maria Popova

Posted on June 24, 2015 by Palace Gate Counselling Service

http://www.brainpickings.org/2015/04/09/find-your-bliss-joseph-campbell-power-of-myth/ Fascinating piece from Maria about Joseph Campbell, and ‘follow your bliss’:- ‘I came to this idea of bliss because in Sanskrit, which is the great spiritual language of the world, there are three terms that represent the brink, the … Continue reading →

Posted in actualizing tendency, awakening, beauty, cognitive, consciousness, creativity, cultural questions, David Whyte, Disconnection, emotions, encounter, flow, growth, human condition, identity, immanence, internal locus of evaluation, Joseph Campbell, love, Maria Popova, meaning, metaphor & dream, mindfulness, natural world, non-conforming, organismic experiencing, perception, physical being, political, presence, reality, risk, self, spirituality, transformation, trust, wonder | Tagged affordable counselling exeter, alienation, aliveness, Ananda, Annie Dillard, archetypes, awakening, being, Bill Moyers, bliss, bliss station, Chit, conforming, conscious living, consciousness, counselling exeter, counsellor Exeter, counsellors Exeter, cowardice of the crowd, creative incubation, creativity, cultural conformity, cultural myths, David Whyte, disconnection, existential dissatisfaction, existential meaning, experience, follow your bliss, fully alive, Gus Gordon, heaven on earth, Herman and Rosie, hero’s journey, human experience, Jean Pierre Weill, Joseph Campbell, Kierkegaard, Letters to a Young Poet, letting your life speak, live the questions, low cost counselling exeter, majority rule, Maria Popova, Mark Strand, myth, mythology of self, non-conforming, Palace Gate Counselling Service, Palace Gate Counselling Service Exeter, Parker Palmer, peer pressure, person centred counselling exeter, Pilgrim at Tinker Creek, poet as witness, poetry, Power of Myth, psychological archetypes, rapture, reflection, reflective process, religious faith, Rilke, risk, ritual, Roman Krznaric, routine, sacred space, Sat, secular scripture, secular spirituality, Simone Weil, sin of inadvertence, spirituality, The Well of Being, Thoreau, Thoreau’s journals, transcendence, uncertainty, uncomfortable experience, uncomfortable feeling, unknown, Van Gogh, wisdom, witnessing, www.palacegatecounselling.org.uk | Leave a comment

Occupy Your Brain: On Power, Knowledge, & the Re-Occupation of Common Sense – Carol Black

Posted on May 23, 2015 by Palace Gate Counselling Service

http://www.filmsforaction.org/news/occupy_your_brain_on_power_knowledge_and_the_reoccupation_of_common_sense/ This is an absolutely brilliant article. ‘……it becomes quite interesting not only to look at what your children are required to learn in school, but at what they are not required to learn. While your kids are very busy … Continue reading →

Posted in awakening, civil rights, cognitive, communication, conflict, consent, creativity, cultural questions, dependence, Disconnection, diversity, ecological, ecological issues, education, empowerment, equality, ethics, external locus, internal locus of evaluation, natural world, non-conforming, organismic experiencing, paradigm shift, parenting, perception, political, power, power and powerlessness, regulation, risk, spirituality, supervision, sustainability, teaching, transformation, trust, values & principles, vulnerability | Tagged activism, Adderall, Adivasi-Dalit Ektha Abhijan, Adivasis, affordable counselling exeter, authority, autonomy, “the sphere of intellect and spirit”, benefits system, benevolent dictatorship, Berkana Institute, Carol Black, central authority, centralisation, centralised authority, centralization, centralized authority, centralized control over learning, centralized systems of authority, centrally-controlled education, coercive conformity, collaborative working, collective intelligence, Common School, Common Sense, community, community sharing, community traditions, compliance, compulsion in education, conformity, conscience, counselling exeter, counsellor Exeter, counsellors Exeter, creativity, cross-cultural perspectives on education, cultural conformity, Dalits, decentralization, democracy, democratic liberty, despair, destructive economy, digital revolution, diversity, Dongria Kondh, ecological awareness, ecology, economic exploitation, economic oppression, ecosystem, education, educational authority, elders, emergence, ethical awareness, evaluation, experiential learning, experimentation, expert model, expert paradigm, external locus, free play, freedom, freedom of education, functional invisibility, Gaia, genetically modified organisms, global standards for education, globalization, GMOs, government control, hierarchies, higher authority, horizontal collaboration, horizontal learning structures, Human Rights, indigenous cultures, indigenous pedagogy, indigenous wisdom, individual control, individual freedom, innovation, institutionalized learning, learning, legacies of colonialism, local control, locus of control, locus of power, low cost counselling exeter, Matrix, mistake avoidance, modern schooling, monolithic bureaucracy, national curriculum, natural world, networking, non-hierarchical models, non-hierarchical models of collaboration, non-punitive social models, non-punitive structures, obedience, Occupy Wall Street, open network of volunteer editors, oral traditions, Palace Gate Counselling Service, Palace Gate Counselling Service Exeter, participation, person centred counselling exeter, personal freedom, political awareness, political education, political oppression, power and control, practice, publicly supported education, risk taking, ritual, SATs, Schooling the World, slave labour force, social exploitation, social inequality, socio-economic oppression, song, spiritual awareness, spirituality, standard assessment in education, standardisation in education, standardization in education, standards for education, state-administered education, state-appointed educrats, state-controlled schooling, story, supervision, sustainability, sustainable indigenous cultures, teaching, Thomas Paine, tribal cultures, trust, uniformity, unlearning, Vedanta bauxite, voluntary communities, voluntary learning, Wikipedia, William Greider, wisdom, Wonder Years, www.palacegatecounselling.org.uk, www.schoolingtheworld.org | Leave a comment

Embodying the Dream – Toko-pa Turner

Posted on May 10, 2015 by Palace Gate Counselling Service

Three days after the UK election, here is a lovely gentle 7 minutes from Toko-pa, an excerpt from the film ‘Time is Art’ and part of her theme at the 2014 Synchronicity Symposium. Here she is talking about the ‘dangerous … Continue reading →

Posted in awakening, child development, Clarissa Pinkola Estes, communication, consciousness, core conditions, creativity, cultural questions, Disconnection, emotions, empathy, encounter, feminine, flow, healing, human condition, interconnection & belonging, love, masculine, meaning, metaphor & dream, natural world, paradigm shift, physical being, political, presence, self, spirituality, surrender, Toko-pa, vulnerability | Tagged affordable counselling exeter, ambiguity, ancestral trauma, Awake and Dreaming, awakening, belonging, collective dream, collective unconscious, connection, consumerism, counselling exeter, counsellor Exeter, counsellors Exeter, dreaming, dreams, dreamwork, embodiment, empathy, encounter, feminine, Gaia, healing, interconnectedness, interconnection, low cost counselling exeter, masculine, materialism, midwife of the psyche, mysticism, mythology, Palace Gate Counselling Service, Palace Gate Counselling Service Exeter, paradigm shift, paradox, person centred counselling exeter, personal trauma, presence, ritual, sacred, sacred grief, Self, sense of self, shamanism, spirituality, Sufism, synchronicity, Synchronicity Symposium, Time is Art, Toko-pa, vulnerability, web of life, www.palacegatecounselling.org.uk, yang, yin | Leave a comment

Mutiny of the Soul – Charles Eisenstein

Posted on January 22, 2015 by Palace Gate Counselling Service

http://beyondmeds.com/2015/01/22/mutiny-of-the-soul/ Click on the link to visit http://www.beyondmeds.com, and this wonderful article by Charles Eisenstein. Palace Gate Counselling Service, Exeter

Posted in awakening, Charles Eisenstein, compulsive behaviour, consciousness, cultural questions, diagnoses of bipolar, Disconnection, ecological, ecological issues, external locus, fear, human condition, immanence, internal locus of evaluation, medical model, Monica Cassani, perception, political, psychiatric drugs, psychiatry, reality, sadness & pain, spirituality, trauma | Tagged addiction, addictive behaviour, affordable counselling exeter, anxiety, ascent of humanity, attention deficit disorder, beloved, Big Pharma, Charles Eisenstein, conscious living, counselling exeter, counsellor Exeter, counsellors Exeter, depression, diagnosis and disorder model, disconnection, ecological issues, education system, fatigue, iatrogenic illness, immanence, indigos, internal locus, low cost counselling exeter, medicalisation of distress, medicalization of distress, Mutiny of the Soul, non-conforming, Oppositional Defiant Disorder, Palace Gate Counselling Service, Palace Gate Counselling Service Exeter, paradigm shift, participation in life, pathologising distress, pathologizing distress, person centred counselling exeter, personhood, pharmaceutical industry, psychiatric drugs, rational self interest, reclaiming self, ritual, sacredness of life, self trust, serotonin, soul body, spirit body, spirituality, SSRIs, sustainability, withdrawal, www.beyondmeds.com, www.palacegatecounselling.org.uk | Leave a comment

Bonnie Bright – Trauma and Homecoming: Finding a Sense of Place in the Space of Trauma

Posted on December 19, 2014 by Palace Gate Counselling Service

http://www.depthinsights.com/Depth-Insights-scholarly-ezine/trauma-and-homecoming-finding-a-sense-of-place-in-the-space-of-trauma-by-bonnie-bright/ Click on the link to visit this fascinating and profound article by Bonnie. It’s a long read, well worth the investment of time and energy. She begins with the choice of the U’wa people in Colombia, faced with the … Continue reading →

Posted in abuse, awakening, beauty, Brent Potter, consciousness, core conditions, cultural questions, Disconnection, ecological, ecological issues, ethics, fear, grief, healing, interconnection & belonging, Joanna Macy, Jung, kindness & compassion, mindfulness, natural world, organismic experiencing, paradigm shift, perception, person centred, physical being, political, power and powerlessness, presence, reality, relationship, sadness & pain, sustainability, therapeutic growth, trauma, violence, vulnerability | Tagged absolutisms, abuse, addiction, affordable counselling exeter, alienation, ancestral memory, anxiety, archetypal, archetypal defence, archetype, attention deficit disorder, autism, belonging, Bonnie Bright, brokenness, catastrophic loss of innocence, Chellis Glendinning, collective memory, collective mourning, collective Post Traumatic Stress Syndrome, collective trauma, collective unconscious, compassion, conscious, conscious living, coping mechanism, coping strategy, core threat, counselling exeter, counsellor Exeter, counsellors Exeter, creativity, cultural disconnection, daimon, defence mechanism, defence strategy, desensitization, disconnection, disintegration anxiety, displacement, dissociation, Donald Kalsched, earth mother, ecological exploitation, ecological issues, ego, emotional affect, existential vulnerability, fear of annihilation, fragmentation, Gabor Mate, Gaia, Glen Albrecht, Glendinning, grief, Heidigger, Heinz Kohut, identity, indigenous culture, indigenous people, individuality, interconnectedness, isolation, Jerome Bernstein, Joanna Macy, Jung, Living in the Borderland, loss, loss of being, low cost counselling exeter, medicalisation of distress, medicalization of distress, Michael Fordham, Michael Meade, myth, narrative, Navajo, numbing, pain, Palace Gate Counselling Service, Palace Gate Counselling Service Exeter, paradigm shift, pathological behavior, pathological culture, person centred counselling exeter, Philip Cushman, pioneer archetype, Post Traumatic Stress Syndrome, power, powerlessness, psychic numbing, psychic pain, PTSD, PTSS, rage, repetitive traumatic events, ritual, sacred space, sacredness, Samuel Kimbles, sense of place, solastalgia, spatial areas of transition, spirit of place, spiritual belief, Spiritual Ecology, Stolorow, suicide, Susan Brison, sustainable ecology, symbol, the Great Self, Tom Singer, transition, trauma, trauma response, trauma survivor, trust, U’wa, U’wa suicide pact, violation, web of life, web of meaning, Western individuality, Work that Reconnects, www.palacegatecounselling.org.uk | Leave a comment

Michael Mantas on Grief, Empathy, Compassion & Ritual

Posted on October 16, 2014 by Palace Gate Counselling Service

Michael Mantas has kindly given us permission to blog his Facebook post of this touching film, showing a little boy grieving for a dead fish – and Michael’s comments on death and empathy which we thought were beautiful, and which … Continue reading →

Posted in consciousness, emotions, empathy, grief, growing up, human condition, immanence, interconnection & belonging, kindness & compassion, love, natural world, organismic experiencing, perception, poetry, sadness & pain, spirituality, tears, vulnerability | Tagged affordable counselling exeter, Apostles' creed, belonging, ceremony, child development, compassion, consciousness, counselling exeter, counsellor Exeter, counsellors Exeter, death, death markers, death ritual, empathy, ephemeral, evanescence, grieving, immanence, interconnectedness, interconnection, John Donne, kindness, love, low cost counselling exeter, Michael Mantas, mortality, No Man is an Island, organismic experience, organismic experiencing, Palace Gate Counselling Service, Palace Gate Counselling Service Exeter, person centred counselling exeter, ritual, sensitivity, soul, spirit, spirituality, tears, the quick and the dead, transience, web of life, www.palacegatecounselling.org.uk | Leave a comment

Tag Archives: ritual

Archives

Meta