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Tag Archives: projecting
Gil Bailie on the Crucifixion & Blame
“The surest way to miss the link between the cure (the crucifixion and its aftereffects) and the disease (the structures of scapegoating violence upon which all human social arrangements have depended) is to read the passion story with an eye … Continue reading →
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Pema Chödrön on Leaning in & Staying Present
“The next time you lose heart and you can’t bear to experience what you’re feeling, you might recall this instruction: change the way you see it and lean in. Instead of blaming our discomfort on outer circumstances or on our … Continue reading →
Posted in actualizing tendency, awakening, blaming, consciousness, cultural questions, Disconnection, flow, human condition, mindfulness, organismic experiencing, Pema Chödrön, perception, presence, reality, sadness & pain
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Monica Lewinsky with Jon Ronson
https://www.theguardian.com/technology/2016/apr/16/monica-lewinsky-shame-sticks-like-tar-jon-ronson Click on the link above for today’s post – Monica Lewinsky in a recent interview with Jon Ronson in The Guardian, well worth a read. In 2015, we published a link to, and a piece on, Monica’s wonderful TED talk ‘The … Continue reading →
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