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Guante ‘Ten Responses to the Phrase ‘Man up”

Posted on December 6, 2016 by Palace Gate Counselling Service

Click on the link above for Guante’s performance of his work on Button Poetry’s Facebook page. Aho. ‘Man up’ belongs in the ‘just don’t say it’ category…. Thanks, Guante, and also to Button Poetry and Angie Buchanan for posting this on Facebook … Continue reading →

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How America’s Culture of Shame is a Killer for Boys – Mark Greene

Posted on April 28, 2015 by Palace Gate Counselling Service

http://goodmenproject.com/featured-content/megasahd-why-americas-culture-of-shame-is-killing-us/ This article by Mark is wonderful, and the writer was crying before the end…Although the title gives a masculine focus, the points made are valid for us all, however we self describe/make sense of gender. This is the second … Continue reading →

Posted in bullying, conditions of worth, cultural questions, emotions, empathy, fear, growing up, identity, kindness & compassion, Mark Greene, Monica Lewinsky, paradigm shift, parenting, political, power and powerlessness, relationship, self, self concept, self esteem, shame, TED, trauma, vulnerability | Tagged addictive behaviour, affordable counselling exeter, alcohol abuse, alcoholism, alienation, antisocial behaviour, approval, authority, binary, body image, bullying, child development, Child Trends Data Bank, childhood trauma, coercive conformity, compassion, conformity, conscious parenting, contempt, corporal punishment, counselling exeter, counsellor Exeter, counsellors Exeter, cruelty, cultural difference, cultural diversity, culture of shame, cycles of shame, defensive, delinquency, depression, despair, disapproval, diversity, divorce, drug abuse, external locus, fear, good enough, grief, humiliation, internal dialogue, internalised values, internalized values, introjections, kindness, listening, loss, low cost counselling exeter, Mark Greene, Palace Gate Counselling Service, Palace Gate Counselling Service Exeter, parenting, permission, person centred counselling exeter, personhood, political, problem behaviours in adolescence, psychological problems, public shaming, punishment, relationship, religious difference, Saliha Bava, self condemnation, self preservation, self-destructive behaviour, self-fulfilling prophesy, self-loathing, selfish, sexual diversity, sexual shaming, shame, shaming as bloodsport, spanking, spanking as shaming, www.goodmenproject.com, www.palacegatecounselling.org.uk | Leave a comment

The Rupture of the Mother Line & the Cost of Becoming Real – Bethany Webster

Posted on February 26, 2015 by Palace Gate Counselling Service

http://womboflight.com/2014/12/21/the-rupture-of-the-mother-line-and-the-cost-of-becoming-real/ Fascinating article by Bethany on the mother-daughter relationship, its deeper potential and meanings, and the wounds inflicted by our culture. She explores the feminine journey into realness and wholeness, with mother as initiator or wounded saboteur – and how … Continue reading →

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Guante ‘Ten Responses to the Phrase ‘Man up”

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