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Belonging: Be the Longing – Toko-pa

Posted on March 28, 2016 by Palace Gate Counselling Service

Click on the link at the end of this piece for Toko-pa’s wonderful post. ‘The ache to belong in friendship and community can be so pervasive that it colours everything we do.‘ The writer stumbled across these words yesterday, and … Continue reading →

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Maria and Allan on living without money

Posted on February 12, 2016 by Palace Gate Counselling Service

Thank you, Seeds for Change, for this post. And Maria and Allan, obviously. The last paragraph says it all. One or two readers have had a difficulty seeing Facebook links, so here is the text, just in case:- “We have been … Continue reading →

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The Longing for Belonging – Charles Eisenstein

Posted on August 23, 2015 by Palace Gate Counselling Service

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/charles-eisenstein/indigeneity-and-belonging_b_8011302.html Originally written for our local Schumacher College, in the context of a course Charles was leading. Charles features regularly on this blog – the writer believes him to be one of the important thinkers and writers of our time. … Continue reading →

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Life Vest Inside – Kindness Boomerang – “One Day”

Posted on December 2, 2014 by Palace Gate Counselling Service

Click on the link for this warming little film on You Tube… Liking the idea of a ‘kindness boomerang’ – and can remember many examples…. Gratitude to Greg Dunn on Facebook for posting this. And while we are in the … Continue reading →

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