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Hello self-loathing, my old friend – Elisabeth Svanholmer
Hello Self-loathing, my old friend… Click on the link above to visit Elisabeth’s website – http://www.livinglifegently.live – to read this post. The writer experiences regular turns of this wheel herself, and so do most of those she works with. Elisabeth’s perspective … Continue reading →
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Charles Eisenstein on how a war begins
This Is How War Begins Click on the above link to visit Charles’ blog for this timely post, in the light of the U.S. election about to reach its outcome. We think the point he is making is essential. The … Continue reading →
Posted in 'evil', accountability, anger, blaming, Charles Eisenstein, communication, compassion, conflict, cultural questions, ethics, fear, kindness & compassion, objectification, perception, political, power and powerlessness, scapegoating, shadow, shaming, trauma, violence
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Deeyah Khan ‘Women Are Part of the Solution to Extremism’
http://www.huffingtonpost.co.uk/deeyah-khan/muslim-extremism-women_b_8251832.html?utm_hp_ref=uk&ncid=tweetlnkushpmg00000067 Interesting, useful article by Deeyah. The writer (who is a woman) takes a reflective approach to posting pieces with a gendered approach. This is because her own sense is that the underlying issues in our cultures are about human … Continue reading →
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