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John Rowan on the nature of assuming personal power
‘During the process of working with the real self, consciousness changes. The mental ego is mainly either existence-oriented or relationship-oriented. If existence-oriented, then the main concern is with power, mastery and control. If relatedness-oriented, the main concern is with conformity … Continue reading →
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Disorderly Conduct – Charles Eisenstein
http://charleseisenstein.net/disorderly-conduct/ Magnificent piece by Charles Eisenstein. Charles transmutes a painful personal experience into a beautiful exposition of the cultural and psychological issues it raises:- ‘the presumption that legally constituted authority should decide what is an acceptable level of safety for oneself … Continue reading →
Posted in 'evil', abuse, bullying, Charles Eisenstein, civil rights, communication, criminal justice model, cultural questions, ethics, external locus, fear, human condition, interconnection & belonging, internal locus of evaluation, non-conforming, paradigm shift, parenting, perception, person centred, political, power, power and powerlessness, regulation, scapegoating, self concept, self esteem, shame, shaming, trauma, trust, values & principles, violence, vulnerability
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