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Tag Archives: Dave Mearns
Dave Mearns on the counsellor’s practice of self-care
Our view at this service is that by far the most important attribute of any therapist (and what we look for when therapists seek to volunteer here) is a strong, consistent commitment to their own self-care, awareness and personal growth. We take … Continue reading
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Person-Centred Basics: Dave Mearns on the power dynamic
Another in our series of person-centred fundamentals, this time Dave Mearns on power. ‘The issue of “power” is fundamental to person-centred counselling. Indeed, the essential principle of the person-centred approach is that the counsellor does not take responsibility for the … Continue reading
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Person-Centred Basics – Dave Mearns & Brian Thorne on Congruence
The sixth in our occasional series of person-centred fundamentals. ‘Why is congruence important? Like empathy and unconditional positive regard, congruence makes it easier for the client to trust the counsellor and the counselling process. If the client accepts the congruence … Continue reading
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Person-centred basics: expertise of the person-centred counsellor – Dave Mearns & Brian Thorne
The fourth in our occasional series of person-centred fundamentals. ‘The person-centred counsellor must learn to wear her expertise as an invisible garment in order to be an effective counsellor. Experts are expected to dispense their expertise, to recommend what should … Continue reading
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Person-centred Basics – Dave Mearns & Brian Thorne on building trust via the core conditions
The second in our occasional series of refreshers in some of the fundamentals of a person-centred approach to therapeutic work. The following examples from Dave and Brian cluster around the central theme of building trust, and which core conditions may … Continue reading
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Person-Centred Therapy: Brian Thorne
Person-Centred Therapy: Brian Thorne Click on the title to go straight to the PDF version of the essay….. This is a SUPERB essay by Brian. A must for anyone training, working or interested in the person-centred approach. It’s essentially a … Continue reading
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Palace Gate Counselling Service, Viktor Frankl & Carl Rogers
“But today’s society is characterized by achievement orientation, and consequently it adores people who are successful and happy and, in particular, it adores the young. It virtually ignores the value of all those who are otherwise, and in so doing … Continue reading
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Dave Mearns on the Person Centred Approach & Theory
Nice little snippet of Dave talking about general and idiographic theory in the PCA….
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