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Tag Archives: coping mechanisms
‘Trump, Clinton and Trauma’ Gabor Maté
https://drgabormate.com/trump-clinton-trauma/ Click on the link above for this perceptive, accurate and topical article from Gabor from last October – before the U.S. presidential result – on trauma markers in our political leaders, and how levels of trauma normalized in our … Continue reading →
Posted in abuse, bullying, child development, childhood abuse, compulsive behaviour, conditions of worth, cultural questions, diagnoses of ADHD, Disconnection, emotions, empathy, Gabor Mate, generational trauma, growing up, identity, parenting, political, power and powerlessness, sadness & pain, self, self concept, self esteem, shadow, trauma
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Tagged abusive parenting, adapted child, addictive behaviour, ADHD, adult personality, affordable counselling exeter, Art of the Deal, attention deficit hyperactivity disorder, authenticity, authoritarian, authoritarian traits, autocratic traits, bullying, child personality, childhood trauma, cold heartedness, compensating patterns, competitive, conditions of worth, conviction of weakness, coping mechanisms, core fear, core pain, counselling exeter, counsellor Exeter, counsellors Exeter, cultural emotional underdevelopment, denial of trauma, denying reality, developing impulse control, dismissive parent, distorted emotional development, distorted reality, distorting experience, distorting reality, dogmatism, Donald Trump, early trauma, emotional abuse, emotional coldness, emotional development, emotionally cold parent, empathy, eruptions of rage, escaping from pain, false persona, feeling emotion, forming a persona, Gabor Mate, grandiose behaviour, grandiosity, harsh environment, helpless child, inability to concentrate, inability to pay attention, inauthenticity, indicators of trauma, infantile self regard, insulation against reality, John Ibbitson, judgemental parenting, Kevin Dutton, labeling, labelling, lack of nurture, lack of nurturing care, lack of principles, learned behaviour, low cost counselling exeter, low self esteem, lying as personality trait, manipulation, markers of trauma, mental states, misogyny, mode of survival, mother wound, motor mouth, narcissistic obsession, narcissistic personality disorder, negative self worth, negative sense of self worth, no early memory, no memories of childhood, not paying attention, NPD, obsessive behaviour, opaque persona, Palace Gate Counselling Service, Palace Gate Counselling Service Exeter, person centred counselling exeter, poor concentration, poor impulse control, poor recall of childhood, psychiatric labelling, psychiatric labels, public self destruction, reality denial, regulating emotions, repressing awareness, repressing experience, repressing memory, repressing pain, revenge on mother, seductiveness, self centered impulsivity, self concept, self destructing, self image, self obsession, self promotion, self protection, self-structure, short attention span, Stephen Harper, suppressing awareness, suppressing experience, suppressing memory, suppressing pain, survival mechanisms, survival modes, Tony Schwartz, traits of psychopathy, trauma defences, trauma indicators, trauma manifestations, trauma markers, tuning out, tuning out as a way of coping with emotional hurt, tuning out as a way of coping with stress, unconscious beliefs, value of competition, verbal abuse, verbal patterns, verbally abusive parent, well nurtured children, www.palacegatecounselling.org.uk
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Brené Brown on Living in the Questions
http://mariashriver.com/blog/2016/04/prime-book-brene-brown-courage-vulnerability-peter-freed/?utm_source=Current+Users&utm_campaign=6c8a4c7de2-April_8_Send_Out_4_8_2016&utm_medium=email&utm_term=0_53bf79976c-6c8a4c7de2-35203661&mc_cid=6c8a4c7de2&mc_eid=baf214491e Brené talking about what the maturation process has looked like for her… We agree – learning to live in the questions is also what we see unfolding in therapy. Palace Gate Counselling Service, Exeter Counselling in Exeter since 1994 … Continue reading →
Posted in boundaries, Brene Brown, compassion, conditions of worth, congruence, consciousness, creativity, cultural questions, emotions, empathy, empowerment, encounter, growing up, growth, identity, interconnection & belonging, internal locus of evaluation, kindness & compassion, meaning, perception, power and powerlessness, presence, relationship, resilience, risk, self, self concept, shadow, shame, transformation, vulnerability
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Why Does Mainstream Psychiatry Fear a Balanced Understanding of Psychosis? Ron Unger
http://recoveryfromschizophrenia.org/2015/11/why-does-mainstream-psychiatry-fear-a-balanced-understanding-of-psychosis/#more-1682 Useful, interesting article on the BPS Report, ‘Understanding Psychosis and Schizophrenia’ and the mainstream psychiatric response. Thanks, Ron. Palace Gate Counselling Service, Exeter Counselling in Exeter since 1994
Posted in anti-psychotics, clients' perspective, conditions of worth, consciousness, cultural questions, Disconnection, DSM, ethics, external locus, fear, genetics, healing, hearing voices, loneliness, meaning, metaphor & dream, perception, political, power and powerlessness, psychiatric abuse, psychiatric drugs, psychiatry, psychosis, relationship, resilience, Ron Unger, schizophrenia, self, self concept, trauma, vulnerability
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Tagged Adverse Childhood Experiences, adverse childhood experiences and schizophrenia, adverse experiences, affordable counselling exeter, alienation, assumptions in psychiatry, balance, balanced perception, Big Pharma, BPS report, certainty, changing perspective, child abuse, childhood trauma, complexity, coping mechanisms, counselling exeter, counsellor Exeter, counsellors Exeter, Debra Lampshire, differences, disease and disorder model, disorders of reality perception, distorted reality, distress, dogma, dogmatism in psychiatry, Eleanor Longden, environmental factors in schizophrenia, external locus, extreme experiences, extreme states of mind and creativity, fear and suspicion, fear of others, fragmentation, genetic causes for schizophrenia, hearing voices, Hearing Voices Network, hope, humanistic, HVN, idée fixe, ideological certainty, ideology, internal locus, interpretation of mental events, interpreting our experience, Joe Pierre, low cost counselling exeter, mainstream psychiatry, making sense of extreme states, manipulation through fear, meaning, mental event, NIMH, normalising psychosis, normalizing psychosis, nuance, othering, otherness, Palace Gate Counselling Service, Palace Gate Counselling Service Exeter, paranoia, perception and reality, person centred counselling exeter, pharmaceutical industry, protection, protective mechanisms, psychiatric coercion, psychiatric drugs, psychiatric model, psychiatric power, psychiatry and Big Pharma, psychiatry and power, psychosocial factors in schizophrenia, psychotic states, re-storying, reality, reality perception, response to adverse experiences, romanticising psychosis, romanticizing psychosis, Ron Coleman, Ronald Pies, self care, self protection, separation, social conformity, social manipulation, storying, terror, threat response, traumatic memory, trust, Understanding Psychosis and Schizophrenia, us and them, www.palacegatecounselling.org.uk, www.recoveryfromschizophrenia.org
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