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Tag Archives: coercive control
Jordan Peterson on Finding a Voice
The writer has a sense that she and Jordan might see some fundamental things differently….and she is pretty much word for word with him on this, although (at least sometimes) she might say it with softer energies these days…. … Continue reading →
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We Were Made For These Times – Clarissa Pinkola Estes
http://www.grahameb.com/pinkola_estes.htm Click on the link for this beautiful and inspiring piece from Clarissa. It won’t be new to some of you….and stands repeating. Thanks to Jewels Wingfield on Facebook for a timely reminder of this passage, in the run up … Continue reading →
Posted in acceptance, accountability, anger, awakening, Clarissa Pinkola Estes, communication, community, compassion, conflict, congruence, consciousness, core conditions, creativity, cultural questions, Disconnection, empowerment, ethics, fear, grief, interconnection & belonging, internal locus of evaluation, metaphor & dream, non-conforming, paradigm shift, political, power and powerlessness, presence, resilience, risk, sadness & pain, shadow, spirituality, surrender, tears, transformation, trauma, trust, vulnerability
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Jason Hine on Grief, Praise, Love & Presence
Here’s the text for those who have difficulty following Facebook links:- ‘I wrote this a few years ago: Spiritual teachers, philosophers and some psychotherapists tell us that it is beneficial to live in the present moment, that ultimately only the … Continue reading →
Posted in awakening, conditions of worth, consciousness, cultural questions, dying, embodiment, emotions, flow, gratitude, grief, interconnection & belonging, Jason Hine, love, presence, relationship, sadness & pain, surrender, violence, vulnerability
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