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Toko-pa on Invitational presence

Posted on March 25, 2019 by Palace Gate Counselling Service

Beautiful description of therapeutic relationship…and indeed relationship… Here’s the wording for anyone who has trouble following Facebook links:- “Whether we are looking to create closeness with others, with nature, or with the living mystery, an invitational presence is the prerequisite … Continue reading →

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Joy – David Whyte

Posted on September 6, 2016 by Palace Gate Counselling Service

David has dedicated this post today on his Facebook page to his daughter, who is beginning college. May all those venturing into the world, and those who love them, experience joy and aliveness. Here is the text, for those who … Continue reading →

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Thomas Merton on love & empathy

Posted on August 23, 2016 by Palace Gate Counselling Service

“To love another as a person we must begin by granting him his own autonomy and identity as a person. We have to love him for what he is in himself, and not for what he is to us. We … Continue reading →

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Unconditional – David Whyte

Posted on August 22, 2016 by Palace Gate Counselling Service

Here’s the text, for those who have difficulty reading Facebook links:- ‘UNCONDITIONAL love is not fully possible. Unconditional love is the necessary, dream-like, and invisible shoreline that continually draws us to its edge but where we can never fully … Continue reading →

Posted in acceptance, consciousness, David Whyte, Disconnection, dying, emotions, encounter, fear, human condition, identity, interconnection & belonging, loneliness, loss, love, meaning, metaphor & dream, perception, power and powerlessness, presence, reality, relationship, risk, sadness & pain, self, self concept, surrender, trust, vulnerability | Tagged ability to love, acceptance, affordable counselling exeter, authentic love, belonging, closeness, commitment, conditional love, conditionality, connectedness, connection, Consolations, counselling exeter, counsellor Exeter, counsellors Exeter, David Whyte, desire for immunity, desire for perfection, desire for safety, disappointment, drama of life, drama of living, dreams and metaphor, emotional risk, encounter, existential meaning, expectation, fear of vulnerability, fulfillment, heartbreak, Helplessness, how we love, human imperfection, interconnection, intimacy, living and dying, love and authenticity, love and possibility, love and realness, low cost counselling exeter, messiness of love, metaphor, miracle of human love, mortality, mystery, need for safety, Palace Gate Counselling Service, Palace Gate Counselling Service Exeter, person centred counselling exeter, powerlessness, presence, recognition, relationship, risk, risk and intimacy, risk and vulnerability, sacred love, seasonality, Solace Nourishment and Underlying Meaning of Everyday Words, spiritual love, touchstone, transience, trust, unattainable standards, unconditional love, vulnerabilities of love, vulnerability, vulnerability in relationship, www.palacegatecounselling.org.uk | Leave a comment

The Space Between Stories – Lissa Rankin

Posted on August 4, 2016 by Palace Gate Counselling Service

The Space Between Stories Click on the link for this beautiful, deep piece from Lissa. Here’s a taste:- “This week, I experienced a trauma that collapsed my story of self, yet a new story has not yet emerged. Charles Eisenstein … Continue reading →

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‘The Truelove’ David Whyte

Posted on February 15, 2016 by Palace Gate Counselling Service

Beautiful poem about coming home to love, from David. Lovely picture too. One or two of our readers are having difficulty reading some FB links, so here is the text:- THE TRUELOVE There is a faith in loving fiercely the … Continue reading →

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‘What’s the Cure for Whining?’ Patty Wipfler – Hand in Hand Parenting

Posted on February 10, 2016 by Palace Gate Counselling Service

Click on the link below for another helpful article from Patty, about how to help your child with their difficult feelings, and get beyond the unhelpfulness of blaming and punishing. Palace Gate Counselling Service, Exeter Counselling in Exeter since 1994 … Continue reading →

Posted in anger, blaming, child development, communication, conflict, core conditions, cultural questions, Disconnection, embodiment, emotions, empathy, empowerment, encounter, family systems, Hand in Hand Parenting, interconnection & belonging, kindness & compassion, loneliness, love, parenting, perception, power and powerlessness, presence, relationship, sadness & pain, self concept, self esteem, shaming, touch, trust, vulnerability | Tagged aloneness, ancestral healing, ancestral pain, asking for help, attention, being loved, belonging, boundaries, catharsis, child behaviour, child’s frame of reference, childhood confidence, childhood distress, childhood needs, children whining, closeness, comforting children, communicating with children, communicating with your child, conflict, connectedness, connection, conscious parenting, contact, difficult feeling, disconnection, emotional climate, emotional outlets, emotional reality, emotional tasks, emotional weather, empathic listening, empathy, encounter, endings, expressing feelings, familial patterns, family patterns, feeling cherished, feeling disconnected, feeling loved, feeling powerless, feeling separate, fixing, frustration, helping children deal with endings, Helplessness, human needs, inner weather, inner well being, interconnection, intimacy, irrational requests, loneliness, manipulation, manipulative behaviour, naughty step, need for contact, parental anger, parental attention, parental availability, parental communication, parental exhaustion, parental resentment, parenting, persistent unhappiness, placating, play therapy, playfulness, powerlessness, presence, punishing, punishing children, punishment, reassurance, reassuring, releasing bad feelings, rescuing, responding not reacting, saying no, saying no to your child, self esteem, sense of connection, separateness, sibling competition, sibling rivalry, somatic expressions of distress, tantrums, time out, trust, uncomfortable feeling, understanding, unhappy mood, venting, well-being, whining, why love matters, zoning out | Leave a comment

An Open Letter of Hope to Parents – Hand in Hand Parenting

Posted on December 4, 2015 by Palace Gate Counselling Service

http://www.handinhandparenting.org/2015/12/an-open-letter-of-hope-to-parents-around-the-world/ Message of hope for families feeling the pain and fear of some of what is happening in the world. This lovely site is full of helpful resources for parents and adults who want to find new, more helpful ways to relate … Continue reading →

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Mouthful of Forevers by Clementine von Radics

Posted on December 2, 2015 by Palace Gate Counselling Service

“I am not the first person you loved. You are not the first person I looked at with a mouthful of forevers. We have both known loss like the sharp edges of a knife. We have both lived with lips … Continue reading →

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The Sea in You – David Whyte

Posted on November 16, 2015 by Palace Gate Counselling Service

Beautiful. Palace Gate Counselling Service, Exeter Counselling Exeter since 1994

Posted in awakening, beauty, David Whyte, embodiment, emotions, encounter, interconnection & belonging, loneliness, love, organismic experiencing, perception, photographs & pictures, physical being, poetry, presence, relationship, sexual being, surrender, touch, trust, vulnerability | Tagged affordable counselling exeter, being seen, belonging, closeness, connection, counselling exeter, counsellor Exeter, counsellors Exeter, David Whyte, desire, disconnection, encounter, heart's longing, intimacy, loneliness, longing, love, low cost counselling exeter, Palace Gate Counselling Service, Palace Gate Counselling Service Exeter, person centred counselling exeter, presence, relationship, requited love, Sea in You, sexual being, sexual experiencing, sexual relationship, transience, trust, unrequited love, vulnerability, www.palacegatecounselling.org.uk | Leave a comment

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